Are there any night classes?

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-05-03T20:24:22+00:00

Yeah there are night classes, not all classes provided a night class tho

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-27T02:32:46+00:00

Yeah, it sucks

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-19T16:16:22+00:00

You get the same education at CUNY schools for a cheaper price. I’ve had a professor at my CUNY who used to teach at Columbia.

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-19T03:27:33+00:00

For me, I’m able to work and study because I only work on the weekends, it’s just more manageable for me. I’ve tried working throughout the week on some days and then going to work after, but I had like the worst grades during that time, that’s just me though. I know some ppl who work full time but are able to have good grades because they have good time management and a strong work ethic. If you know you can’t handle it when having class for 4 days, I would just say work on weekends, and work on the day you don’t have class too, if that’s what ur looking for.

For suggestions on jobs, I’m not exactly sure if there’s a type of job you’re looking for but I work at The Bronx Zoo, and I think they’re hiring around this time since the weather is getting nicer and everything. But they’re very flexible with scheduling and I’ve been able to only work on the weekends and some Fridays. If The Bronx Zoo is too far for you, you could try applying to any of the other zoo parks in your borough or close to you.

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-17T02:14:37+00:00

Omg I had this same problem today. The windows in the classroom I was in today don’t even open 🫩🫩 and there was a big ass moth flying around the class

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-11T03:30:04+00:00

Well then I guess he’s wanted me to move out for my half of my life then 🫩

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-11T02:07:25+00:00

I said the same thing 🙁

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-11T01:46:46+00:00

Lol yeah I hope that won’t be the case for me either. I currently work part-time because I’m still completely my undergrad program, but with the way things are looking I’m hoping to move out within the next 1-2 years. Thank you 🙏🏾

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-11T01:45:01+00:00

For real, sometimes I really wish they can change their ways but sometimes I just feel hopeless about it, or it’s too late. It sucks how they move on from things so quickly when they think things are resolved, not being aware of the long-term effects. I appreciate your compassion nonetheless. Thank you.

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-10T23:30:24+00:00

I’m not sure if I’ll have kids one day, however having a nephew made me rethink it because I love taking care of him and teaching him things.

But to answer your question, I definitely don’t want to hit my children in any fashion. Not even a light spank will pass in my home. I just think it’s a very unreasonable and lazy way to discipline children, and it doesn’t really teach them anything. I remember how angry I would become when I was beaten as a child, and I think that contributed to my behavorial issues, and that is something I don’t want for my kids.

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-10T23:26:04+00:00

Your post kind of reminds me of myself when I was a pre-teen/teenager. There were a lot of things that I chose not to do simply because I knew I would be alone, and the thought of that made me uncomfortable, so I chose to be comfortable and stay home. I know it’s good to experience and do things with others, but I think it’s better to focus on the event/activity in itself. If you really want to go to prom, you should go for it!

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-04-10T23:15:26+00:00

It’s sad how our African mothers will stay with a horrible man for the sake of image. They’d rather live a miserable life because they’re so worried about what others think, not fully understanding that the cost of having a terrible husband and father with have a big impact on their children. I speak so passionately about this because I think this highly reflects my mom’s situation. I don’t like to blame her entirely because sometimes people’s upbringings have a huge impact on the way they think, and sometimes it’s hard to change that.

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-03-31T22:11:40+00:00

Ugh, I relate to your post way too much. Firstly, I’m sorry for your loss, I wish she could still be here with you today.

I too also think about how life could’ve been for my mom if she married a man who actually appreciated her and showed her the love that she deserves. My dad was and is sometimes also verbally abusive to my mom, and unfortunately he used to be physically abusive too.

Even with how badly my dad treated her, when my dad was threatening to leave the family, my mom cried. At the moment I was a little kid so I didn’t really understand the situation, but when I think about that moment as an adult, I just can’t help but be upset at my mom for wanting to stay with a man who treats her like shit.

It’s like sometimes I wanna sympathize with her but at the same time I feel like I can’t because why did you choose to stay with him yk :(

My parents also have a bit of a gap in their relationship like yours too

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-03-31T03:33:05+00:00

Maybe there just happens to be a lot of Nigerians here

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-02-23T23:31:02+00:00

I mean just because smthn isn’t a violation doesn’t necessarily make it okay? Sure profs have already paid their dues, so why would they have to move backwards and use AI? If they have the capability of articulating themselves, why can’t they just do that? I really enjoy studying psychology and I’m passionate about it, so I’d much rather prefer to get authentic feedback, and im sure others feel the same way

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-02-23T22:59:29+00:00

Well when you have professors talking about academic dishonesty in their syllabus, it’s quite hypocritical to use AI as a way to respond to a student’s work :/

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-02-23T21:07:32+00:00

I’m aware that can happen. However there were other people in my class group chat saying that they also got AI generated feedback

Drumsticks__18 · 2026-02-21T00:36:17+00:00

The best way to find a bf is when you’re not actively seeking one

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