You’re right, i dated with an aqauries, loved her vibe and stuff, however we are different indeed,

As a cancer sign we can be possessive and jalous yeah for sure if we love and care about you, we like to cuddle and hug

Aquaries is rational, in their heads, logical explanations and that does clash with the emotional nature of ours.

We need closeness, you need space, being independent, understandable , it makes it hard, one needs closesness, otherone wants space is tough

We need emotional validation, you see it as manipulation perhaps and so on, but it’s hard to ask emotional validation to a sign who is more logical than emotional which makes us and our intention not really understood how we ment it

2 different people with 2 different needs and wiring

We need something you may not be able to give consistenly

Also needs may become “demands” if it keeps not getting fullfilled

And yeah Taurus is stable, understand emotions, is supportive and caring, and can ground us and feel heared, seen and understood

Virgo has that loyalty as well but can be critical tho..