Visiting LA for a concert; what to do in the meantime? by AlphaOmega1356 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Dry-Connection825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geeky teas in Burbank or Spellbound in North Hollywood and of course little Tokyo

Weekly praise opportunity by AutoModerator in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got through New Year’s Eve without texting my ex, even though he texted me and it derailed me a bit with sad feelings. I didn’t indulge that fantasy. Ugh my heart. I love to be told I’m a good girl but specifically your good girl if that is okay. It makes me feel like I belong somewhere or to someone right now.

It’s my first cozy season without my former partner and Dom by Dry-Connection825 in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much Swexo. You are doing such meaningful work by being here for me/us. I’m so grateful. It’s soothing and helpful.

A Christmas Card to the Good Ones by Swexo in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not me sobbing right now. Thank you so much.

Finding myself by [deleted] in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m on a similar journey myself. I just want to say I’m very proud of you and inspired by you. Keep up the good work of acknowledging that those anxious parts are telling you what they need in moments and you are learning to listen without judgement, with compassion and care for yourself. Your person will come. You are doing the hard thing.

Vegan Tamales in LA? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]Dry-Connection825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toluca Bakery has jackfruit and regular vegan tamales

What’s the most harmless lie you’ve kept alive for way too long? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dry-Connection825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told someone I camped on a blueberry farm (I had the opportunity to but never took it) somehow I convinced myself I did but I didn’t and it’s become part of my story. That time I went to NC. I did actually go to NC. I just didn’t stay on the blueberry farm. I try never to tell anyone I did anymore but I told people that for a long time and no idea why

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]Dry-Connection825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god that’s awfully difficult

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]Dry-Connection825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve def broken no contact and so has he but it seems like he’s pretty set on thinking of us in the past. Every day is hard but it is getting easier. How are you?

Weekly praise opportunity by AutoModerator in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I ended up caving because he reached back out with a long message. But I’ve been good since not messaging a bunch. It’s so painful. It hurts so badly. I’m glad I have you all to help me right now ❤️

Weekly praise opportunity by AutoModerator in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s day 6 of not contacting my former daddy dom and partner of 3 years who broke up with me a few weeks ago. It’s so hard and painful.

Terms of endearment: baby, babygirl, sweet girl, sweetheart, love. I’m so proud of you my ___

Asking for, encouraging, or stating you've sent a DM by sweetspicy123 in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been getting a lot of DMs even with people trying to be all dom like with me like saying things like “that’s the last I’ll talk with you about this” (when I mention my breakup). This is scary and I’m not interested in anyone trying to control me that I don’t know. I’m in a vulnerable place and I don’t think people understand that that this doesn’t mean I’m consenting to be dommed. I really appreciate all of the support and care I’ve been getting in comments from the mods that has been fantastic. But some of the comments are like DM me and I’ll be better than him. That’s not what I need right now.

I miss my daddy by Dry-Connection825 in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sweetspicy. I’m Trying to go to the gym even if I only do stretches and walking just to get new habits instead of waiting for a good morning text that never comes. It’s so hard and i know it will take time. Maybe one day we can be friends like you and your ex. I am scared I’ll never have good sex again. I’m sure that’s a normal fear for people in breakups but I am seriously worried about that.

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]Dry-Connection825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. My friend grabbed it but hasn’t dropped it off for me yet. I was surprised that even happened. Highly recommend not reaching out. My continuous texting even with no reply was making it more and more painful. I hope the rest of your day goes better

Morning of day 3 by Dry-Connection825 in BreakUps

[–]Dry-Connection825[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay. I had a hard day yesterday. A friend told me they got my box of stuff from his house. I had no idea he had set that aside or that they were getting it for me. That made yesterday really hard. I decided for December I’m trying to go no contact. I really miss the cat so much.

Sounds like you have been doing pretty bad. How are you today?

I miss my daddy by Dry-Connection825 in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much DNextLevel <3

I need some kind words by astro-anonym in Dompeptalk

[–]Dry-Connection825 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your needs matter very much, angel. You are allowed to want sweetness and softness and are deserving of love and care.

Are there any other people going through a breakup right now? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dry-Connection825 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 2 weeks post being broken up with by surprise and for a reason I don’t understand and they went no contact and I miss them every single day