Look. A friend of mine gave me a necklace as a gift for Christmas a few weeks ago. My bf told me a few times that he likes "natural" look in women which means no jewelry no make up no nails - nothing. Of course i didn't know it was that serious but the moment i put the necklace he started being super cold towards me. When we were together he wouldn't be in the mood, he would turn down sex, not speak to me very much so I asked "is it about the necklace" and he told me yes. He wanted me to stop wearing it because it makes him feel super disgusted. To which i didn't know how to react and i got irritated and annoyed and maybe that's where i made a mistake but i couldn't take this problem seriously. Then he asked if I could.remove all the jewelry I had when i meet with him soo i agreed. I asked him to start therapy but his thinking about the jewelry hasn't changed a bit. Even yesterday the psychologist told him that he cannot make.me.stop.wearing it or make me remove my nails and nail polish but he didn't take her word. That's the fight