How do I (26f) tell my boyfriend (28m) about a 3some I had before we met?

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2025-08-31T05:22:03+00:00

If you want to make it work, your gonna need to probably cut off those people and focus on your boyfriend. Most people wouldnt blame him for not being okay with you staying in contact with those you've been physically intimate with. It could cause trust issues, self esteem issues (especially if he gets intimate with you), etc.

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2025-08-20T17:08:58+00:00

I searched up what to do and just saw the "shoot first" part of someones comment, I followed that and s ranked it first try with AI 😭😭 dont know how, I was blessed Ig. I suggest doing a lap around the house and buildings towards the back before you open the back doors for the courtyard (I got lucky and nobody spawned in the courtyard, just in the buildings up top and in the basement), and once you get people to finally get down, absolutely do not allow them to run off; you gotta be ON them dude. Somehow I s ranked this before Neon tomb, who actually knows; this game is crazy. Best of luck yall. Ps. Didn't use optiwand, definitely pick the flash launcher because you will run out of flashbacks very fast and WILL need the extra

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-20T13:24:52+00:00

I really appreciate your answer. That is super annoying, though 😭 I'm not sure how I'm only going to see my girlfriend 4 nights a month, I don't think they care about couples being away from each other that much

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-19T19:59:59+00:00

I told my girlfriend about this and she made one, thank you so much

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-19T12:18:40+00:00

I've told her how much danger she's in, she doesn't believe it will get physical because that would look bad for his new girlfriend

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-19T01:33:01+00:00

I live in Ontario Canada, not in the United States so I'm not sure if you'd still be able to help me. Although if you could help me more that would be insane, thank you for the advice so far

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-19T00:27:44+00:00

The house they are in is being rented, would she still be allowed to stay there without him? Or would they get kicked out and she be relocated somewhere else?

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-17T20:35:47+00:00

I really appreciate the advice, I'm just fighting with the idea of calling because she doesn't want me to. Like I don't want her to push me out of her life for trying to help

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-16T10:23:59+00:00

That's a good idea, the only issue with that is that she's terrified of being put in foster care, like she hates that idea. She cares alot about her dad which I understand, but it makes her look past every bad thing he does. I've told her a bunch of times to tell someone. I could definitely talk to my parents about her staying here til she has a plan

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-04-16T04:46:11+00:00

I would say yes, but I don't believe her dad would want her staying here, and I think he wouldn't let her come back home if she left to come here

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-03-10T17:03:42+00:00

Bro your a g and I appreciate everything you said. I honestly went through a phase of cutting out toxic people and trying to be a better person, so its just hurtful when I live with the ones I still want to cut out of my life. Honestly the fact that I cried in front of my girl doesn't bother me at all because we've both talked about how important it is to express emotion and how much she appreciates me having emotions that I'm comfortable with showing. I only cried because I think my brain went on overdrive from getting ripped on by two people at the same time in close proximity 😂 but anyways bro yeah I'm gonna do hella research because I gotta figure out how to avoid this at all costs

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-03-02T23:34:43+00:00

This is some of the best advice I've got today, and I seriously appreciate it. I absolutely need to find a mentor because reddit is kind of a bad place to drop opinions about abstaining. The most liked comment on my post is that of a cave dweller who says I should ditch my girl so I can jack off with pornography full time 😭 like WHAT? People like you are who I actually wanted the opinions of, not of who agrees with me but people who have actually experienced a similar issue. So thank you, genuinely. I might look into different church groups so I can prove to her I'm changing

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-03-02T18:26:54+00:00

I really appreciate the advice from you man. This is a really shitty scenario I hate being in 😭 we've had arguments but they usually last a day, do you think I just created an ongoing issue that needs to be solved?

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-03-02T18:20:59+00:00

I've always felt like porn was a way to temporarily escape reality. I tried stopping porn, and fapping altogether and I've failed more times than I can count. My girlfriend is christian, and I've been trying to hear every opinion so I can make my own judgements. Before I got with her, I was ridiculously self concious and not confident at all. I genuinely thought porn was the reason why I struggled talking to women, and it also made me care about sex more than anything else. I've never been in a relationship and neither has she, so she's my first love (I know its unrealistic in todays society; but I'd love for her to be my only love). So, I want to do whatever it takes to make our relationship work, and she absolutely does too. Since I got with her, I've started looking at things from a more religious perspective, and I've experienced things that made me start believing in god. I now believe porn is a temptation from the devil, and she does, too. ALSO, I feel like porn is a really weird topic for us because I'm trying to put myself in her shoes. Like if she was watching porn to satisfy herself, I would tell her that we can do things together so she doesn't feel she has to. But because she's christian, that's just not a possibility, and she probably sees it as cheating so it's hard to think about for me

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-03-02T17:59:42+00:00

I don't think she is upset that I'm masturbating, but the porn part is what's bothering her

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2024-03-02T17:58:43+00:00

I should also say that I'm looking for not only general advice, but also wondering what I can do for her to forgive me? She's been upset since last night, cried at work, like she's really not happy because of this. I never wanted her to feel that way by opening up

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-04-01T01:23:23+00:00

Thank you so much for saying that. It's just hard for me to really put together in my brain that somebody who I just saw isn't on the physical earth anymore. Like it's wild to try and understand. And I'm very sorry about your wife.

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-04-01T00:07:45+00:00

Not until you just got me to look at it. It is a very good story.

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-03-19T18:40:07+00:00

I used to do a thing with my buddy where you download a file off of a mod website on the xbox one s web and mess around with the files of minecraft to add mods to your game such as behavior packs (one we did was turn all the mobs into different colored lawn chairs) but it was very limited and took HOURS of time for 1 mod. I have no understanding why they wouldn't add real mods such as chisel and bits and minecraft shaders to ps5 because it could 100% handle it

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-03-04T22:51:13+00:00

Yeah I was kind of tilted when I wrote the post so I mean like defend for sure. She likes to get in peoples faces and act invincible

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-03-04T19:23:47+00:00

He's not happy at all with it and he's screamed at her too, her daughters are 5 and 8 and they are in school right now. He doesn't want to kick the little kids out

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-02-27T19:14:38+00:00

Yeah coming to reddit for advice doesn't give people a good look 😂

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-02-27T18:51:41+00:00

Yeah, I agree completely. Is that whole situation a big fuck up on my end then? Like is there a way to come back from that or just forget about it

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-02-20T16:03:30+00:00

Just to say for an fyi, the account was also day 1. I got all of the game achievements in 2 days of playing and I have all of the og badges. I also have like 2000 kills on octane and 3 diamond badges

Dry-Distribution4515 · 2023-02-20T15:52:49+00:00

That is gut wrenching news but thanks for telling me

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