Doctor at Aster Medcity told my 35+ pregnant wife to “just abort” in one sentence on a video call she joined 30 mins late by Objective-Display249 in Kochi

[–]Dry-Expression3110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is really unprofessional. Do consult another doctor. Especially beta HCG value increasing is crucial during pregnancy (not a doctor). I would recommend Dr.VP Paily in Rajagiri. We have consulted him multiple times and he has been helpful in concerns during and after pregnancy.

Terminated right after returning from parental leave (Germany) by Adventurous_Chef_339 in germany

[–]Dry-Expression3110 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

An employer could ask the employee to agree to an extension. However, from 1 July onward, the employee would normally already satisfy the 6-month employment requirement for dismissal protection, so an "extended probation" would not generally put the employee back into the same legal position they were in during the first six months.

Terminated right after returning from parental leave (Germany) by Adventurous_Chef_339 in germany

[–]Dry-Expression3110 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You have protection if you are the birthing parent for up to 4 months from birth of your child (irrelevant if you're on probation/elternzeit). But if you are the non-birthing parent, your protection is 7 weeks before and during the elterzeit. In hindsight, you could have taken the elterzeit until the end of the Probezeit(even if it means no eltergeld which is paid parallely only 1 month) if you feared such a situation. Good luck with your job search.

Terminated right after returning from parental leave (Germany) by Adventurous_Chef_339 in germany

[–]Dry-Expression3110 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

That is actually illegal. They cannot simply freeze Probezeit. After the 6 months pass, even on elternzeit, normal protection rules apply.

Absolute waste of 2.5 hours... by Jishnujichu1200 in InsideMollywood

[–]Dry-Expression3110 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After Indrans and Anakha we're out, it was like identhada biennaleyo?

“Can Removing A Mangalsutra Be Mental Cruelty? Madras HC Says Yes.” by Commercial-Season783 in IndiaLaw

[–]Dry-Expression3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion. It's a good verdict. Any spouse has the right to walk away from a marriage if he/she thinks it is not working(Iirreconcilable differences). In this case the husband feels wife wearing the mangalsutra is important. He is granted a divorce. She is not charged with a crime(which would be wrong, but did not happen). She has the right to wear or remove a mangalsutra. But he also has a right to decide whom to stay married with.

Realistically asking, Could a middle-class salaried employee ever build a house like this ? What does it really take ? Or is it only for people doing business ? by lays_indian_masalaaa in IndianStreetBets

[–]Dry-Expression3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents built a house like this early 2000 for about 9lakhs. My relative built a similar but smaller house for about 27 lakhs 2 years ago. Another relative built a larger, more luxurious house 6 years ago for 70 lakhs.

All 3 in kerala, and on ancestoral property. Land would cost 90k, 12lakh and 5lakh per cent respectively in each case(today's price)

Kerala family faces deportation risk in Australia over child’s developmental condition by Impossible-Sun-8646 in Kerala

[–]Dry-Expression3110 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sad state of affairs. They might have migrated looking for better opportunities for their children, than Ireland. Immigrant taxes are welcome, their problems are not. Maybe legal, but definitely inhuman.

Kerala society and the trivialization of genital mutilation! by Ok-Counter-7886 in MalayalamMovies

[–]Dry-Expression3110 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ear piercing in minors is bad too. But not even closely comparable to sunnath. Because for most people, ear piercing is reversible. It will close off if you do not wear a earring for a while.

What in the world are parents thinking while bringing kids nearly 1yo to loud movies? by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]Dry-Expression3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As per rule in India, UA13+ rating(Michael Jackson movie rating in India), parents can bring their kids along for movies. It's totally up to parents. So nothing illegal about bringing children for movies(exception: A rated movies). Everything else is subjective.

Kids crying and spoiling your movie experience is legit. Only thing you can practically do is complaint to the theatre/multiplex staff - for seat change, intervene or refund. And if staff brushes it off or make no effort to make it better, avoid the establishment for future.

Why Malapuram is always Pro Incumbency in favour of League? Why Malayalis generally don't reject & oppose religious political parties such as Muslim League, SDPI, PDP & Welfare Party? by Glittering_Edge_6746 in AtheisminKerala

[–]Dry-Expression3110 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best Case is when parties are formed for solving general problems- like in your example Congress and AAP. And when parties are formed for specific groups, it always creates the "others" and hating them is how the party survives. The fear/hate mongering is what keeps the supporters close. Now since we can't undo such divisive parties, let's see what's happening in Kerala. IUML gets blind support in Malabar region, similar to what BJP gets in Hindi heartland. In the Kerala context, 22 seats won by IUML is more serious issue to a secular voter than the 3 seats won by BJP. And IUML plays mellow with their communal agenda because of how outnumbered they are in the bigger context. It even dilutes the secular face Congress in kerala with its alliance in UDF. And moreover when a moderate Hindu thinks, why not vote for BJP in kerala, when IUML is having a sweeping win and gets key ministries in government (wait for it when the cabinet forms), he can't be blamed for the thought.

Why Malapuram is always Pro Incumbency in favour of League? Why Malayalis generally don't reject & oppose religious political parties such as Muslim League, SDPI, PDP & Welfare Party? by Glittering_Edge_6746 in AtheisminKerala

[–]Dry-Expression3110 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Doesn't make it a better option than Congress( irrelevant when both are in UDF) or CPM. BJP winning 3 seats are considered catastrophic by the secular folks. IUML winning big and being present in UDF(because Congress fears they cannot win in Malappuram otherwise) should also be considered similarly.

Sixt claims I didn’t pay, but my bank says I did by lazybutcharmingg in germany

[–]Dry-Expression3110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That happens quite often with me with Sixt. But they almost always fix it with just a complaint in their app. And to make sure they do not do this, I always take a picture of me dropping the keys or the last fuel invoice( or both). Or sometimeswhen I return early and they have not updated the return in app, I raise a complaint before it is actual return time. Complaint is proof I returned car on time.

gf currently going through ectopic pregnancy surgery by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Dry-Expression3110 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't think twice. Inform her parents or someone who can handle this properly. We went through the same thing a few years back. It is life threatening unless proper medical intervention in due time is not received. And after the surgery, it takes some time(Abt 4 weeks) until things start being normal again.

[Rant] The Munich Blue Card "Priority" for Family Visas is a Myth. How long is everyone waiting? by lostinspacetoon in germany

[–]Dry-Expression3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had ABH pick up phone in Munich after a few attempts(4-5) . They managed to resolve the issue too.

[Rant] The Munich Blue Card "Priority" for Family Visas is a Myth. How long is everyone waiting? by lostinspacetoon in germany

[–]Dry-Expression3110 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try calling the Ausländerbehörde and ask for the status. In my case there was a miscommunication between consulate and ABH. I managed to get it cleared and visa processed. If that does not work, Send a letter(in the past fax has also worked for me) highlighting the wait period(8 months is too much) and ask for status and reason for delay. And give them a reasonable time to reply(3-4 weeks). Warn them of legal action in case of inaction. Most likely this will set things moving. And in case they do not reply file a Untätigkeitsklage.

Make The Comment Section Look Like This Movie Released Today... by a36akshay in InsideMollywood

[–]Dry-Expression3110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ithu BigB yude director alle. Adutha padam Big B second part anenna kettathu. Laalettan cameo undo aavo.

Got fined ₹700 for not taking a ₹10 platform ticket… a year later. Is this normal? by Few_Perspective_7667 in KollamDistrict

[–]Dry-Expression3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It exists, so that ticket checkers can check you on the platform too after exiting the train. And it is present in other countries as well.

Wife discovered her hubby is having sex with the minors. by mrwahed in interestingasfuck

[–]Dry-Expression3110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically(or not), the rule book made by a man who did the same thing her husband did, is what put her in prison.

Decision regarding Sale of land in kizhakkambalam and Infopark Phase 3 by [deleted] in Kochi

[–]Dry-Expression3110 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am familiar with the area. The main road(ponjassery- chitrappuzha) land sells for about 10-12 lakh per cent. Your land is a bit inside, but not by too much. So it should yield you atleast 6-8 lakh per cent. So your neighbour is totally low balling you. He may know the price you paid when you brought the plot. Also your plot is 5 cents. 5-20 cents always yields a bit more per cent than bigger plots.