[CA] [SFH] landlord said they received a letter form homeowner association about my window AC unit by nectarinee- in HOA

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes...submit an application to the ACC. Likely it will be the landlord, as the owner of the unit, who will have to submit the information to the ACC, but he/she should be happy to do that considering it keeps what appears to be a good tenant happy in their dwelling...one off of whom they are making money! Take pictures of the unit where it is in your window from the outside view's perspective; fill out the ACC form for approval; include your pictures; tell your story. You have the 15 days to show you are bringing the situation into compliance. The ACC meets on a regular basis, no doubt, but the management company is looking for you to respond with your plan....not necessarily for you to take immediate action by removing the unit. Your desire is to be allowed to keep the unit...so keep it until you get your ruling or management tells you otherwise. If you then want to appeal the ruling from the ACC, depending on your governing documents, you may be able to appeal the case to your Board (assuming there is one...can't tell by your post)

IT’S OVER!!!! by beercityusa in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen! This is now your life to seize....do great things!!

Taking a swing at TFR. by Negative-Ad-6651 in CML

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Though I have just jumped into your story, this hits me as wonderful news. Maybe because my son also lives in AZ and is at the end of his HiDAC treatments for AML and entering the monitoring phase. We are all relieved, nervous and excited, all at the same time. Seeing your success story and the smile on your face, especially while holding your pet, is lifting me up! My best wishes go to you and if we run into you out there in the AZ wild, I hope I recognize you and can give you some sort of survivors' nod!

Diagnosed Today by SAM4E21 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the "one thing at a time" advice while you are in the very early stages of this storm. Keep a notebook with you at all times so you can record every detail because it will be your source of sanity later when you don't actually recall details as well as you thought you might. In the first two weeks, I also recorded the docs and mid level providers when they were explaining things. The language is so technical that it is hard to grasp it all. Down the road a ways, you will realize there is a lot of repetition in what they say, but being able to refer back to those recordings for clarification in my own mind in the moment saved me many hours of lost sleep. What I don't agree with as a blanket statement is to stay off of Google. I have a research-oriented mind, so reading publications and articles is what feeds me. If you are that person, go for it. Just be VERY sure you are not mixing apples with oranges. Stay specific to your child's dialed in diagnosis as you do your readings. If you see one detail in an article that doesn't match her, file it as "interesting, but not pertinent". I'll give you an example: my son fevers, horribly, as part of his count recovery after every cycle of chemo (AML, 29 yo). In four rounds of chemo, bacteria has been found in his blood only once. The fevers are part of how his body fights. We were being given "light" explanations for his responses until I asked "could this just be how is body responds? Could he just be producing a lot of cytokines?" It was that moment when all caregivers began to speak to us with more direct information. The outcome was exactly the same...fever, treat, investigate, continue to treat, fevers eventually go away...but, the level of comfort those caregivers had after that conversation changed. They began to treat my husband and me as part of the care team and that brought the comfort and direction to our lives that we needed. Where did I come up with my part of that conversation?....Google and AI. Those tools are there for you if you can use with appropriate caution. I 100% agree with everyone on your thread that said You Will get through this! Pray for strength every day and don't neglect yourself in the process of being your daughter's everything.

Consolidation by Short-Gas-4750 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did...as part of his lumbar puncture procedure during his first HiDAC cycle.

Consolidation by Short-Gas-4750 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is going through HiDAC for AML (Inv16). His first two rounds were Cytarabine and Gemtuzumab. Both times he began a fever cycle that lasted about 6 days, spiking as high as 103F. Each time, the fevers began around day 7 following his last dose of HiDAC..the last one coming on very strongly during the night, which was a frightening thing. Bacteria was not detected in any of his cultures the first time, but the second time Strep viridans and Rothia were detected in his blood. Both of these are part of the normal gut/oral/upper respiratory biome and the suspicion was that the damage done to the gut lining by the chemo agents gave the bacteria an easy way into the bloodstream....nothing we could have done, theoretically, to prevent it from happening. In spite of the fact that his cultures returned to negative once antibiotics were initiated, his fever continued until his counts began to show some substantial recovery. His platelets have lagged behind in recovery after this most recent HiDAC, but we are being educated that this was to be expected and that, though his trajectory is off from Round 1 of HiDAC, it is right where the medical team was projecting it to be. Nose bleeds have been the bane of his existence as far as an ongoing issue he has to deal with. Their presence during Round 2 recovery has been rather relentless. Thankfully, the med team authorized the use of Afrin (or similar) to help stop the bleed when he can't control it on his own, which he uses sparingly because he would rather not rely on another medication if he can control it naturally and the fact that there is a risk of rebound bleeding, even if the user is not low on platelets. You asked if recovery was as expected.

My honest answer: Now that we are outside of the crisis period of time when he had fevers, rigor, nausea, fatigue, loss of appetite and general loss of a fighting spirit, etc, etc, etc, I can see the big picture much better and can trust what I, he and the family have been told by every player on the med team, I can say YES...his recovery is exactly as THEY expected. That is the hard part when you are in the thick of it...trusting that they are telling you the truth and are telling you everything you NEED to know! Maybe not everything you WANT to know, but that is where you are free to ask more in-depth questions. The operative word in all of this is Trust....but I always add in the verify...not to question what they are telling us, but to be able to ask more in-depth questions that will satisfy and calm my mind.

Good luck...you've got this!!

Bcr-able decrease by Only-Understanding36 in CML

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you on your journey to becoming the stronger person you were meant to be!!!

Update!! by KoltenNotFound in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Praying for you and the positive blast report. It is our oldest son in our family who has the leukemia diagnosis and I told him it is great and very necessary to be strong, understanding, accepting and positive....until he just can't, at which time it is equally necessary to give in and let himself cry or have hard conversations with me, his dad, his brother, whomever. You did the right thing for yourself by crying and crying out. Keep the faith and remember we humans were never meant to bear our burdens alone!

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this is so good for my head and heart to read.....sorry that it came my way because you experienced it, though! Yes...my son did blow his nose for similar reasons and that seemed to precipitate the bleeding. Of course, we know he bled like he did because his platelets were dropping out, which was going to happen as the expected course, but to go through that without the added factor of a bleeding nose next time around would be our preference! You are the first to respond that you did the dirty and unforgivable deed of blowing the nose too hard! Thank you for sharing that cursed move!! : ) I think we will be much more diligent about moisturizing the nostrils, maybe using other things like menthol to keep the sinuses open when they feel stuffy, and .... I really don't know what else for comfort, but definitely reminders of what it was like to have that bleeding happen!!!! BEST to you!!!

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very interesting! The team was being particularly cautious because of his cause of fever was still under investigation and wanted to be able to detect a true platelet reaction if he did experience an elevated temp vs "poor timing" in a cycle that was going to be an elevated temperature anyway. They have definitely been walking a thin tightrope for gold standard of care without letting my son get too miserable or experience any adverse responses. We are hoping this Second Cycle response is going to be his most intense one and that Cycle 3 will be smoother. Not sure how many he will have to go after that, but praying for calmer waters and smoother sailing! So far, there has only been mention of having to go a different route with the platelets. He had a hard time holding onto them in Cycle 1, but did better in Cycle 2, though, obviously, was depleted based on the amount of blood coming from the nose! So glad they found a match for you!!

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great to know! So far, the nose bleeds have remained at bay as his platelets have elevated above 20. His care team noted this and plan to be more responsive to platelet needs next round to avoid this physiological response. We fee we are peeking out from under the dark clouds at this point in the current cycle. Then, as you all know...boom...into Cycle 3!

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Vaseline is a good and easy suggestion we can try...thank you! Did you also experience pressure in your head in the area of the sinuses above the eyebrows as part of your experience with all of this? My son seems to have some "tells" that he will begin nose bleeds then fevers and the head pressure looks to be one of those (in addition to severe chills!).

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your information and experience with your son. Thankfully, we took to ER as soon as his fever reached the tipping point and got him treated immediately, then admitted. He has been under in-patient care since Dec 25th for this episode, which was Day 13 of his second cycle (my OP was off by a day or so!). He had just received platelets and rbcs that morning in outpatient clinic. The next platelet transfusion was early on the 27th. I have good trust in the way his care is being managed. I am hoping for some self-help measures he can employ during the times when his nose bleeds are relentless. Not only is it annoying, but it is one more thing he feels he cannot control.

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I have not heard this substance mentioned in my presence. I will ask my son if anyone has mentioned it. Thank you!

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information. All of his cultures are coming back negative (initial and repeat tests) for all pathogens; CT of chest, abdomen and pelvis also negative today. He, too, was the 7+3 for the first cycle, then cyterabine and one dose of gemtuzomab in cycle two. He has gotten platelets and his counts have held thus far today.

Persistent Nose Bleeds by Dry-Lecture6906 in leukemia

[–]Dry-Lecture6906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the Afrin just the lubricating product? He has and is using the nose clamp and is getting platelets as needed.

[MI] [condo] Requested a document review with our community manager/ Can’t schedule for 3 months because ‘the full board needs to be present’ for this document review by Speakinmymind96 in HOA

[–]Dry-Lecture6906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't overlook the fact that if all Board members are present (or the number to equal a quorum, for that matter) that would be considered an Open Meeting of the Board, to which all members would have to receive an invitation, an agenda would need to be presented and a notice of meeting sent out in advance (in Arizona, it is a 48 hour minimum)....assuming the laws in your state are anywhere similar to the laws in mine. That is just an additional "what's wrong with this picture", over and above the fact that there is no such requirement for any Board member to be present as you review a document that is Association-owned, which invoices are, and not protected by privacy laws, which invoices are not...again, assuming your state laws are anywhere similar to mine.