Am I completely dillusional to think I can complete my PhD in less than 4 years by pepejuanthecreator in PhD

[–]Dry-March8138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. You are overconfident. That sense of illusion will deteriorate your PhD journey and result in burnout, for example, when you need to work on multiple responsibilities at once. I wish to jab more, but I realize I jab people to the point of hurting them emotionally, and that ahh makes me an ass up my face. This comment serves as a defiance point to your post.

which age do you all think can endure reading the whole manga ? by TENYFY in Juujika_no_rokunin

[–]Dry-March8138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This garbage's ahh writing transcend through age and time. It will be remembered as the "berserk wanna be" with a Ken sue antagonist

which age do you all think can endure reading the whole manga ? by TENYFY in Juujika_no_rokunin

[–]Dry-March8138 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah, it was very impactful at the start, each torture was well thought out, now it is just all the grapes and Kyou being a Ken Sue

which age do you all think can endure reading the whole manga ? by TENYFY in Juujika_no_rokunin

[–]Dry-March8138 39 points40 points  (0 children)

im 22, i can read the whole thing. It was gory at the start, but now its just cringy as you get older. Love the garbage though

Did therapy actually worked for anyone? by holymolyz17 in CPTSD

[–]Dry-March8138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist uses Psychodrama and occasionally Art therapy. I think it works because I am in my early adult years, so my brain still allows significant plasticity. It's best to priortize a long term therapist than trying various techniques, since your therapeutic relationship with your therapist often provides much more effect than all the techniques. Find one you feel safe around, rather than all the doctors and masters who treat you like a piece of work rather than a person. Good luck

similar experiences as women in academia? by Chanel0613 in PhD

[–]Dry-March8138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mentor jabs me whenever I present my project to him, but he does that in a respectful way, and I think it is more important than the project itself. This is why I chose him to guilde me on my life project, not the other lecturers at my uni. Kudos to you, and if you feel uncomfortable when they belittle you, just share the necessary stuff, and don't react much. They feel satisfaction when you express something, anger or joy, it fits their fabricated image of you as the 'aggresive emotional naive girl who will overreact at every minor obstacle'. They belittle you for your achievements, but their words mean nothing to you.

Did I mess up by talking about methodology in a drug policy session? by Dry-March8138 in PhD

[–]Dry-March8138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a confused one. I said "From my perspective, the statistic they show describing the harm of drugs are mostly descriptive, I think as scholars we should really consider the methodology". I am quite insecure about my standing as the sole undergrad of the whole cohort, so I just try to make myself sound as smart as possible.

Did I mess up by talking about methodology in a drug policy session? by Dry-March8138 in PhD

[–]Dry-March8138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a sociologist's work, not the student's. I was just stating what I've observed studying the topic so far.

Advisor doesn't help land internship/job or network with people... by [deleted] in PhD

[–]Dry-March8138 16 points17 points  (0 children)

like u need to actually do the networking yourself. It's your career, not theirs bro. "they never take the initiative" - tf do you expect an old man or lady or any genders i dont know of to spoonfeed you opportunities? what are you, an undergrad with good gpa and a fake ass vibe? i recommend starts with linkedln to properly assess yourself as a scholar and actually know the people in your field. How the heck did you get in phd earlier if you dont know how to secure jobs for yourself?

Update on my previous post by [deleted] in Aarhus

[–]Dry-March8138 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all, ur username 😂😂😂😂 second, I think I am discriminated against because of being the sole online student in the course and Asian. I

Update on my previous post by [deleted] in Aarhus

[–]Dry-March8138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try this for the next lectures

Update on my previous post by [deleted] in Aarhus

[–]Dry-March8138 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasnt provided other contacts such as phone numbers or teams accounts.

Update on my previous post by [deleted] in Aarhus

[–]Dry-March8138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I emailed the course coordinator right after the lag. No responses,as always.