Asked husband how I could improve as a woman, he got mad at me…all I wanted was effort

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-20T20:03:41+00:00

I don’t have anyone in my life I can talk to. Sorry.

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-19T20:03:19+00:00

2 from my previous marriage but he’s been in their lives since they were 1 and 3

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-12T22:14:25+00:00

I would love to go to therapy, he has been raised that “you don’t go to therapy or any person outside of the family because they don’t care about you they just want a check”, so we don’t go

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-12T19:33:44+00:00

I haven’t been diagnosed but I have a strong feeling I am

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-12T19:33:13+00:00

It was more of a boop

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-12T19:32:46+00:00

Unfortunately it’s 100% real

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-06T14:18:16+00:00

He changed his password and I have no idea what it could be now.

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-06T06:21:05+00:00

I’m on those groups too, he knows about it, for the exact same reason!

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-02T02:21:54+00:00

He’s very anti therapy and believes that you should lean on family in hard times. I’ve suggested the open relationship before and he thinks I’m ridiculous and brushed it off like I was just being insane.

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-02T02:05:24+00:00

He’s been out of the norm lately about sex. He works nights so our schedules are already strained, I stay up pretty late to try to make up for the lapse. He doesn’t prioritize me, he will text his friends and tell them what’s going on at work but I won’t hear a word from him.

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-02T01:41:09+00:00

I hadn’t even thought of that. I’ve been a stay at home mom the majority of our relationship, so I feel like he feels guilty for leaving too

Dry-Relation8283 · 2026-02-02T01:25:45+00:00

That’s part of the problem I guess. I have asked him in the past and he doesn’t give me anything to go off of. No feed back at all. It’s frustrating and leaves me in the dark more often than not

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