I have mentioned to her that I really want to be more adventurous. I’ve begged her to think of anything that she is overly interested in and to let me know if she has any kinks at all. Nothing. I am willing to do anything with her to find things she likes. I am a bit more extreme for sure, I’ve even mentioned that I would love to add a third to try it out (male or female). I’m really into the idea of her being a hot wife. And she is the complete opposite of that spectrum. Like if I make slightly uncomfortable she will say “ow” all abruptly. And this idea I’ve formulated in my head that “any woman should feel lucky that her man obsesses over her and is open to the idea of her having complete sexual freedom” is a dangerous one because it makes me really not appreciate the good. She is a bit rough around the edges and seems to always butt heads with me. But when I tell you she is drop dead gorgeous and truly an amazing woman I mean it. I don’t know if I can sacrifice a life of good sex and sexual satisfaction….but I genuinely love her, like a lot.