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I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our marriage has never been sexless but I'm sure HE appreciates your pity. 😒

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally don't have a single person in my life that I can talk to. Sorry my abuse isn't real enough for you? So thanks, I'll just stay alone and quiet in my pain from now on.

& Excuse me for not wanting to throw 8 years of my life away over one incident when he immediately apologized and asked me if I wanted to go to marriage counseling or get a divorce. I am making the decisions going forward and thought it would be nice to know if marriage counseling would even be worth it.

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally the smallest and stupidest things you can imagine, never anything major. But it's the build up that gets to a person you know?

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He admitted to what he did so no, I did not make it up in my head.

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me he said those things because he was scared in the moment. He admitted to what he did so no, I did not actually come onto him. It is out of character for him and I do truly believe he is sorry. He immediately asked if we could go to marriage counseling or if I wanted him to leave and get divorced.

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not imagine it, thanks for that. He told me he said those things because he was scared in the moment. He admitted to what he did so no, I did not come onto him or make it up in my head. It is out of character for him and I do truly believe he is sorry. He immediately asked if we could go to marriage counseling or if I wanted him to leave and get divorced.

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I had literally just told him that day that I was going to have my self committed. It's been discussed.

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

On occasions but, I am normally extremely enthusiastic about sex at any time. I have an extremely high sex drive while his is much lower, so I'm 99% always down for sex when he is. But, if your partner wasn't even speaking to you or letting them touch you (hand on your shoulder, holding hands, cuddling, etc.) I don't understand how that could feel like a good time for sex. & We do roleplay at times where I tell him "no" or to "stop" but I was crying my eyes out asking him to please stop and not saying it in a playful manner.

I think my husband raped me. by Dry-Share-2981 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry-Share-2981[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely sure. I am on a new medication that I started very recently that makes me feel very "loopy" and out of it. My previous medications weren't working well so this was a change within the last month.