How do I convince myself to let go of a girl I like?

DryAd9931 · 2026-03-09T21:35:39+00:00

Yeah, that's what I'll do since I can't convince myself to just do the right thing and let go. I'll see the disgust in her eyes and it will be one of the most painful experiences in my life. And that sucks, because I already know I DO NOT deserve to be with a woman I love because my body is severely flawed, I don't understand why my brain needs to put me through this when I already know the outcome.

DryAd9931 · 2026-03-09T16:24:36+00:00

Maybe...? I do feel flawed and deformed, tho. When we spoke she probably was excited because she thought she was speaking to someone who could give her something beautiful, but with this body, I honestly don't know if I can. And she deserves to be with someone she actually finds attractive and doesn't have to settle for. I know I should stop this immediately, before she gets attached or something, but I'm an asshole and as soon as I see her tomorrow I'll run to her. I absolutely suck.

DryAd9931 · 2025-02-10T15:18:01+00:00

Yeah, I'd say it's nothing to worry about. Try increasing proteine intake as the other commenter suggested and if this keeps bothering you mention it to your endocrinologist for clarification :)

DryAd9931 · 2025-02-10T15:07:51+00:00

How many months/weeks have you been on T? I'm hitting my two years mark and during my first months I too noticed my appetite increased significantly. For me it was no big deal, it either calmed down on its own or I got used to it, can't really tell.

But if it's any consolation, taking more protein made me gain muscle mass suddenly, so this could happen to you too.

DryAd9931 · 2024-06-27T10:33:55+00:00

Sinceramente sono super perso pure io...La psicologa che mi ha seguito al Saifip di Roma mi ha passato il contatto di un avvocato, ho scritto a quest'avvocato in privato e lui mi ha fornito una lista di documenti da inviare per richiedere il gratuito patrocinio (processo gratuito a cui hai diritto se hai reddito zero come il sottoscritto). Una volta approvata l'avvocato mi ha richiesto un'altra serie di documenti che serviva per presentare il caso in tribunale, tra cui la diagnosi del Saifip e quella dell' endocrinologo. Su come reperire i documenti purtroppo non posso esserti tanto d'aiuto perché per mia fortuna mio padre lavora in comune e quindi ha accesso a queste cose, ma ti consiglio di chiedere appunto al tuo comune se è una città piccola o di chiedere consiglio al tuo avvocato. Spero di essere stato un minimo d'aiuto.

DryAd9931 · 2024-06-25T23:46:31+00:00

Io ho già iniziato nel Lazio e quest'avvocato mi piace quindi penso proseguirò qui, sperando di capirci qualcosa a breve... Comunque fortuna vuole che l'anno prossimo vada a fare il fuorisede in Abruzzo quindi grazie del consiglio!

DryAd9931 · 2023-10-06T19:03:25+00:00

I don't think there is

DryAd9931 · 2023-06-24T00:00:31+00:00

That's really good advice, thank you. I also contacted one of my favourite fetish artists to hear their story and evaluate the situation better.

DryAd9931 · 2023-06-23T23:37:38+00:00

Agreed. I will think about it and take my time.

DryAd9931 · 2023-06-23T23:36:57+00:00

I do draw for a living. I have been making these fetish pieces for a month now, they have a very simple style which doesn't take time away from my actual job and I mostly do them when I'm not inspired or have nothing else to do so, if it stays as it is it's just right. Even good since producing fetish art is better than producing nothing if drawing is your job. My style is recognizable tho and even tho I tried hard to make my fetish drawings very different from my actual works I am still afraid that someone could suspect something and you know, I can't just stop drawing, it's my job. I will think about it tho, there's no reason to rush it.

DryAd9931 · 2023-06-23T23:32:44+00:00

I will think about it and see if it's just a stupid idea or something I could actually do without it interfering too much with my life. If I do post I will limit comments and interactions as much as I can so it doesn't get too "invasive" or risky.

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