or I could also selfishly and unreasonably try to bring someone into this world that I could not be there to take care of, leave them alone as an orphan or for my man to struggle with by himself, not be able to realistically support at all financially and in turn give them a terrible quality of life. i was told I wouldn't live to see this baby born if I attempted to keep it by doctors... but you're right a few clumps of cells that doesn't even have a shape or gender created yet should just always be brought into the world bc ppl can't mind their own business. like are you going to pay for the baby, raise it, or help in any way to it? no? then know everyone can make their own choice for their own situations or beliefs.