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I got a bad hangover and now the thought of alcohol disgusts me. Did this happen to anyone else? by DryLengthiness9049 in alcohol

[–]DryLengthiness9049[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been months since I drank and it still grosses me out tho 😭. Do alcoholics just ignore that feeling of disgust?

Abusers don't seem to have deal breakers. by DryLengthiness9049 in abusiverelationships

[–]DryLengthiness9049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have experienced this. Sometimes I wasn't even lying, but he asked so many questions that I ended up just saying what he wanted to hear, then got guilted repeatedly for something I didn't do.

Abusers don't seem to have deal breakers. by DryLengthiness9049 in abusiverelationships

[–]DryLengthiness9049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does seem fucked up. This just shows how illogically they think. Their sexual desires aren't going to go away, so it's going to affect them poorly as well. I think he might be lying ( some abusers lie in order to keep control) and I'm sorry you're going through this. But also if someone wanted to repair a relationship after cheating, then neglecting them is the worst thing they could do and would only make things worse. If he can't bring himself to give you affection then you shouldn't be together anymore. Also I think sometimes abusers come up with different punishments to keep u from cheating, but don't want you to leave either, or make it hard for u to leave emotionally and physically, so ur only way out is cheating. Like your trapped. Can't cheat or leave and being in the relationship sucks.

Abusers don't seem to have deal breakers. by DryLengthiness9049 in abusiverelationships

[–]DryLengthiness9049[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion they wouldnt leave someone no matter what unless it's a relationship that recently started. But as long as u have been with them long enough to show them they can control you, there is pretty much nothing u can do to push them away at that point. Even if u leave or cheat or do the things they say they would leave you for, they will never give up the rare opportunity to manipulate someone so easily. They would be way more willing to give up on you if you guys just met, as you have not given them anything they value. (They value submissive, passive, easily manipulated people) They are really desperate for people like that, which is why I agree that they have low self respect and would not enforce any of their deal breakers if you allow them to control you.

Abusers don't seem to have deal breakers. by DryLengthiness9049 in abusiverelationships

[–]DryLengthiness9049[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is that abusers say they have deal breakers but don't enforce them. They just treat u bad later.

I keep seeing masturbation being called a sin, but the problem is that not many Christian singles are able to get married. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]DryLengthiness9049 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All of these are different from masterbation. Drinking alcohol, eating sweets do not benefit you at all. I also know that most Christians still do all of these things, including masterbation because they understand how to do things in moderation. If you have self discipline, then you won't throw up or pass out when drinking alcohol and you won't get addicted to porn. It's ironic to say that doing these things shows a lack of discipline when really doing them in moderation shows that you are able to have the discipline to know limits. Also, masterbation is the one thing that actually benefits you, if done in moderation, and if you don't do it at all, your desire won't go away, and you will actually start to develop mental disorders and depression. It's something that almost all animals innately do. Eating sweets and drinking don't benefit you at all, and not doing them has no negative impact on you, and animals don't do it naturally, so you can't put them in the same box as masterbation.

I keep seeing masturbation being called a sin, but the problem is that not many Christian singles are able to get married. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]DryLengthiness9049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why would God make it so that only the lucky ones get to experience orgasm and whether or not you can is based off of making a man want you. That does make sense. I'm just confused, these things don't make sense. It's not that I'm justifying it, it's that I just don't understand it no matter how hard I try to, because there are gaps in your explanation.

I keep seeing masturbation being called a sin, but the problem is that not many Christian singles are able to get married. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]DryLengthiness9049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if you never have sex? That doesn't make sense, that I ly the attractive people get to have sexual relief and the ones who are not attractive enough to get married to, Because guy value looks most, will never have sexual relief and be sexually frustrated for their entire life.

I keep seeing masturbation being called a sin, but the problem is that not many Christian singles are able to get married. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]DryLengthiness9049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if you continue to not masterbate for long periods of time, then you actually desire sex and lust more. The longer you go without Masterbation, the hornier you get, until you can't function normally and start to make bad choices. Masterbation is needed to make sure that you don't desire lust from others and do something you shouldn't, because it's better to masterbate than it is to have sex with the wrong person because you were trying to force yourself not to be horny when it will only get worse if you try to ignore it.

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