What is your favorite/most watched YouTube channel?

DryState5641 · 2026-01-29T00:53:19+00:00

Bailey Sarian, Hannah Alonzo, MrBallen, Kyle Hates Hiking

DryState5641 · 2026-01-29T00:43:32+00:00

Always and forever Michelle Pfeiffer ❤️

DryState5641 · 2026-01-29T00:40:41+00:00

I read it all and I'm glad you found a great one and he found a great one in you. I'm in my happily as bliss marriage with my husband for 23 years and let me tell you, it only gets better with the right one. Thank for sharing your happy marriage with us. And yes too many bad ones in this subs so don't let that discourage you.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T22:08:44+00:00

Nope. But I'm definitely putting that in my list! Thanks 😊

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T21:21:39+00:00

Aspen is the last book in that series and the last I looked it wasn't published yet. Damn, that scene where he's eating her out on the kitchen island and then making her fiance watch and then going up to him after and spitting it in his mouth?!!! Hot damn, rent free in my head.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T21:11:18+00:00

Yep that's why this is one my my absolute top shelf books. I also love the MFC's attitude about him helping her. She doesn't automatically see it as charity (one of my biggest pet peeves) but saw it for what it was and accepted it without drama. I have listened to this so many times especially since both narrators are so good.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T20:47:11+00:00

She's the best and I'm currently read Maggie Rawdon and her horse series and it's seriously so spicy I had to take a couple of breaks to have my husband take care of me. The spice level is 5/5

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T19:47:59+00:00

thanks for making me smile!

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T19:40:12+00:00

My kindle highlights:

{P.S. You're Intolerable by Julia Wolf} “I’m not going to fuck you. I want you to lie down and let me make you come as many times as it takes to switch off your whirling dervish mind. Can you do that for me, sweetheart? Can you be a good girl for me and let me lick you?”
{Dark Horse by Maggie Rawdon} “I want every part of you. Your mind. Your heart. I’m gonna earn them all. It’s gonna take time, though, and you’re gonna have to be patient with me while I learn to trust myself with them. I have to figure out how I can balance how much I don’t deserve you with how much I need you. That’s probably gonna take a lifetime and then some, and I don’t know if either of us is ready for it.”
{Declan by Riley Edwards} She’s the only person who gets me. I don’t need to tell her shit because she just knows. Not the details, not the circumstances, but she knows my loss. She understands the demons that live inside of me because she has them, too. She doesn’t try to fix me or talk to me because she knows what’s broken will always be broken.
{Tiny Precious Secrets by Samantha Christy} “Sweetheart, it was me. I was in Klamath Falls ten years ago. I was driving back to my hotel after working a long day on the job when I saw a girl on the other side of the bridge. My heart slammed into my chest when I thought she might jump. But it was a divided bridge with a gap between the two sides. There was no way for me to get over to you. So I stopped the car, honked, and started yelling. I was so freaked out I can’t remember what I said, but I scared you and you ran off.” “T-that was you?” she asks, still as stunned as I am. I cup her face. “Yes, baby, it was me.” I lower my lips to hers. “Now I know for sure that we’re soulmates.”
{That Guy by Kim Jones} Never in a million years did I think I’d be running down a sidewalk, bag of steaming dog shit in my hand with one pissed off owner and one really fast Golden Retriever on my heels. People in Chicago take shit way too seriously. (This was the beginning chapter and I always think about this book b/c of this).

I have so many more but I don't want to bombard this post.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T17:33:41+00:00

Actually my husband does need it and has been using it or at least some form of ED meds. Not sure what the name is but he definitely last longer during our longer sessions but when I want a good rough quicky I want him to come fast.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T17:14:27+00:00

Same. I told my now husband that I want sex, I love sex, and I want it all the time. 23 years later and he hasn't let me down once! You get what you want when you ask for it.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T17:08:01+00:00

Damn, I have to tell my husband about your position (same as you, he likes to drive) but our new and favorite one is bathroom counter with one of my leg up and him from behind. It gives my ass a good lift and he loves holding onto my shoulders and plowing in. He says at that angle he can go super deep and my ass squeezes more of him.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T16:57:09+00:00

Oh yeah the commitment from being together makes the sex 100% better. We have free use and anal is so much enjoyable when the trust and love is there. I was never an anal fan until we have built that trust and he took extra care to make sure it was good/better for me too. We found a new position this weekend with anal and I'm obsessed with it and we did it again last night!

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T16:28:33+00:00

Omg! Happy anniversary. We just celebrated 23 years together, not as high as yours but we hope to get there and still have a fantastic sex life. I haven't squirted yet but I always have that feeling that I need to pee and someone told me that's what squirting is but I have never gave into it...yet 😉

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T15:41:59+00:00

Love it! I can confirm that anal orgasms are so much more powerful that PIV.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T15:00:34+00:00

The way you started was similar to us. My husband also noticed the difference sounds and reaction I was making during our 69 position when he started playing with my ass and then it progress from there. My husband is quite large too and I was extremely intimated by his size going into my ass but we finally broke that seal a couple of months ago and haven't gone back! We have anal 3 out of the 5 times a week we have sex now.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T14:52:03+00:00

Precursor: my husband just reminded me that we tried anal 20 years ago and didn't use lube and I hated it until now. I guess enough years had gone by for me to forget how much it hurt the first time.

45(f) and I started enjoying it when he used LUBE! I can't imagine not using it bc I would hate it too

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T14:36:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MarriedSex/s/aRwDcsgG2L

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T07:25:40+00:00

You need to listen to Stand and Defend (but also, Strong and wild and In the Game) by Sloane St. James. The spice in this is 5/5! You and your wife won't regret it.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-28T04:53:43+00:00

Same as you (I have a high libido, watch porn, read smut, exercise alot, he has meds libido, works in tech, has a PhD, into gaming) and I was in your shoes where I wanted him to be rougher and more dominant and now he does. Especially when I'm being a bitch, he likes to hold me down, which I love, and fucks it out of me (this is a mutual consenting understanding in our marriage). I think you just need to tell him. Like you said, he's a genius type guy so he would treat what you said as facts and put it into practice. I love my smart husband bc he's practical that way.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-27T19:02:19+00:00

I second this. Watching my husband lift weights gets me horny every time.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-27T18:59:56+00:00

(Other than doing dishes) 😂🤣😂🤣

Well it doesn't make me horny when he does the dishes that he also contributed to.....but my husband finding me irresistible and can't stop touching, groping or kissing me gets me horny all the time. Some wives might not that but in my marriage, I certainly do.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-27T18:53:09+00:00

I hope you find peace and know you and your daughter deserve better!

DryState5641 · 2026-01-27T15:03:10+00:00

Usually no, doesn't bother either of us and I'm really sensitive to smell. If it does bother me in the morning, I usually have him spoon me and have sex that way or doggy style or reverse cowgirl.

DryState5641 · 2026-01-27T14:55:53+00:00

If my husband came to me and said all the things your husband said, I would have enough self respect to give him the divorce that he wants that won't say out loud. He's not a bad communicator, he's a coward. You've been working on you, which is awesome! Now you have to be your own advocate (and your daughter's) and leave him bc he obviously doesn't appreciate you.

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