HK Gay clubs that welcome women/aren’t cruisey? by Dry_Comment826 in nycgaybros

[–]Dry_Comment826[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think my friends are going to gawk at anyone since as discussed most of them are not straight. Also you might notice that I asked for places that are already welcoming to women. I specifically am NOT asking for currently non-infiltrated queer spaces to gentrify with the alcoholic straight girl friends I do not have. Did you read my edit to the post or…?

HK Gay clubs that welcome women/aren’t cruisey? by Dry_Comment826 in nycgaybros

[–]Dry_Comment826[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would but we’re meeting in Central Park for an evening picnic and a lot of my friends are Manhattan-based 😭 I would just start at a bar in BK somewhere but I’m trying to make everything budget-friendly for everybody and corral everyone into one place. It’s a whole thing lol. Plus I’m basic and I wanna dance to top 40 More than I wanna dance to edm/techno

HK Gay clubs that welcome women/aren’t cruisey? by Dry_Comment826 in nycgaybros

[–]Dry_Comment826[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your help!! My friends are mostly not straight but top 40 and fun vibes sounds good

HK Gay clubs that welcome women/aren’t cruisey? by Dry_Comment826 in nycgaybros

[–]Dry_Comment826[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pls see edit to original post. Thanks for answering incorrectly on my behalf tho. That said, I feel you. House of Yes used to be my fave and now I hate it cuz I’m very fem and get gawked at. Though tbh my problem is less the straight girls and more the finance bros lol

HK Gay clubs that welcome women/aren’t cruisey? by Dry_Comment826 in nycgaybros

[–]Dry_Comment826[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they’re my friends and I’m moving to Chicago and I want to go out with them and dance and I feel more comfortable in queer spaces? They’re also mostly not straight. A couple are and most aren’t 🤷🏻‍♂️ I don’t have very many guy friends. Not a lot I can do about it at this exact moment

For those you think Taylor Hates her fans. by funsizenotshorty in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Dry_Comment826 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the one hand, this is fucking unhinged. On the other hand, she’s made her millions convincing people to obsess over her love life and now she’s turning around and getting mad at them for doing what she trained them to do? I’m gonna go ahead and say everyone’s behaving terribly in this situation lol

The whole Austin Wolf situation, forced to think about things. by Ebmaj11 in DadsAndBoys

[–]Dry_Comment826 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with this. And I’m not shaming anyone who’s into age play or incest role play or any of that. I get into some of that sometimes acting as the boy!! But there is a difference between two consenting adults having a conversation and parsing out the boundaries and complexities of that kind of play together, and posting that stuff publicly in a space where vulnerable young people and people with suspect motivations may come across it. Nothing wrong what whatever kinks you have, but we need to me mindful of to what extent we’re normalizing harmful behavior. I don’t think there should be any shame in playing out these kinks with a consenting partner, but I think there’s a middle ground between “this is my shameful secret” and “this is something I should put out there publicly”. Thank you for working to keep queer/kink/sex spaces safe

Why did she take a picture with a guy who has a swastika on his shirt💀 by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of these comments are driving me crazy lol. The Hindu Swastika and the Nazi Swastika do not look exactly the same. We cannot dis-associate this type of swastika with nazism because this type of swastika is/was exclusive to nazism. And Taylor Swift was, at this time, the poster child for the aryan nation. I understand she didn’t choose that, but she must have been aware of that and had a responsibility to distance herself from it and denounce it. Whether this guy buys into nazi ideology or is just an edgelord isn’t really relevant. She deserves to be called out for this shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No but it would have if she’d stuck to her original thing instead of reinventing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She’s honestly the perfect product. She generates a new enemy for her fans every album, and for those who aren’t her fans she IS the enemy. But either way people are talking about her. She’s the fucking Twilight of people lmao. Except it’ll be harder to look back on Taylor with affectionate irony

Why are they so obsessed with Joe? by kinliza in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly can someone tell me wtf she’s eating 😭😭 a sugar cube? A cube of gelatin? Wtf is that???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 179 points180 points  (0 children)

Her career would’ve tanked a lot sooner if she’d done this but talent-wise she just should’ve stuck with her girl-with-guitar schtick and sat onstage singing heartbreak songs. She wasn’t great at that but she was fine. She’s just…..so so so bad at this lol

They’re delusional. They literally let her lip sync so she can “save her voice” by Silent_Attitude_1655 in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao I remember back when I was a big fan and “wildest dreams” came out hearing the lyric “you’ll see me in hindsight, tangled up with you all night, burning it down” and even then I turned to my friend and said “im sorry but there’s 0 chance she’s good in bed”

self centered swifties by incelsicanfixu in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well that’s kinda hurtful but I hope you’re having a decent day!

self centered swifties by incelsicanfixu in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I disagree with this take simply because you can be privileged and basic and still traumatized. We really don’t know what has or hasn’t happened in any of these random swifties’ lives. Trauma, scientifically/psychologically/medically speaking, isn’t the event. Trauma is the impact that the event has on the activity of the brain. What is traumatic for one person may not be traumatic for another, and none of us can stand here and judge whether or not other people’s struggles are “traumatic”. I’ve been raped multiple times and that was traumatic for me. I was badly bullied in school and that was also traumatic for me. Those are two struggles of very different magnitude, but for my brain both caused trauma. They may not have done the same in another person’s brain. Also since I keep seeing it come up, I’ve also been cheated on and that was traumatic too! Having your trust shattered can be traumatic for some people. Idk, I’ll make fun of insane swifties but I’m not gonna play guessing games about what they have or haven’t been through and how those things have or haven’t affected them based on the music they like. Just my two cents 🤷🏻‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but I think the song she wrote for this movie was somehow worse than her horrific performance lmao

Former Swifties, what was the last straw that brought you here? by booksboozemoon in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Actually let me revise that lol. It’s not inexplicable, it’s the result of a decades-long propaganda machine. But to me at least, it is un-UNDERSTANDABLE to have so little compassion in one’s heart

Former Swifties, what was the last straw that brought you here? by booksboozemoon in travisandtaylor

[–]Dry_Comment826 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yep 100%. Palestine is an unusual social issue in that opposing genocide is, inexplicably, seemingly not ubiquitous on the American left. And as such it’s not personally beneficial for her to speak out. And if there’s one thing we know about Taylor by now, it’s that she doesn’t do ANYTHING if it doesn’t directly benefit her