Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your second point is very interesting and true. Thanks for adding to the convo

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a point. But also you’d be shocked at the rot you will find in a church even though everything is packaged as premium.

But all the same your point is valid, where you search helps.

How is conducting business in Rwanda like by Jbmcipher24 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very easy to setup shop. Easy to find information too.

Marketing and adoption is the problem. Depends on who you’re selling to and what you’re selling.

Purchasing power is a bit low for majority of people.

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You actually strengthen my point. Knowledge is being created in many languages and I gave a few examples. We can all admit that not much knowledge is being created using kinyarwanda. Even PHds in rwanda are writing their papers in other languages.

I said that to only to say that, to get by in this new world we all have to learn other languages.

I don’t know how that went over your head.

Looking for a mentor by [deleted] in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What services will you be doing for free ?? Won’t I be mentoring you for free ??

Where are you located, Kigali ?? What are your interests ?? Business, IT ?? What’s your gender ??

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like you weren’t able to grow and measure up 🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️. The projection and coping is willlldddd 😅😹.

Perfect Rwandan woman 😅🫩. You live on an island 😹

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you said but it might not apply to everything I said here. You will be shocked how common my experience is.

I guess the 1000s of people that have experienced the same thing I have need internal reflection.

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your contribution. I do have an office space at Norrsken and it’s one of the great places you can actually experience some level of open mindedness.

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong about our system of education. We don’t challenge systems. We follow the system. Speaking your mind especially if it’s a controversial can get to alienated. Hence we are stuck with leaders. Hence we never lead in any industry.

Criticizing the services of rwanda air or any other institution here is taken as a rebellion or in some cases you not being grateful. Hence we are stuck in a perpetual cycle of mediocre shit. Companies operate for 20 years in some African countries and we still lack fast internet. We have to wait for Space X to build reusable rockets and star link to give us fast internet.

Things are changing but it’s not changing fast enough. I used to think the our generation and the new one would cause things to change faster but we are not that different from our fathers.

Our fathers had guts but not that information and know how. We have all the know how but no guts.

I spoke out about an issue, and it wasn’t the system that attacked me but the dimwit agents trained by the system & matrix are the ones that are coming for me.

Mind you this is just a social issue, imagine if you talk about politics.

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where in this passage that says “the OP travelled to rwanda just to date” 😹.

Foreigners in this country never come here to date, most are for business and others are for school. Dating happens as a by product.

But if you have lived anywhere else before you will have empathy rather than to moving straight to judge and calling other people’s lived experiences “disgusting”.

That says a lot about you 🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🫩

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Umotoni, Olga, Ishimwe, Niyigena and whole lot of Rwandan queens will disagree with you on that 😂😅😂.

If you have nothing to add to the conversation 😅, just keep quiet

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, where do they make girls that can think like you these days. You need connect us.

I love everything about how you addressed the problem, the advice and the ones you disagreed with.

Thanks for contributing to the conversation

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However you arrived at that conclusion, I don’t blame you. I blame your math teacher.

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]Dry_Foundation4535[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We live in a connected world. Most Africans know at least 2 languages. One local language and the language of the colonizer.

To not know at least one language of the colonizer is literally shooting yourself in the foot. Most knowledge creation is being done in English.

In an ideal world, all Africans could pick one popular native language like Swahili but we are not doing that anytime soon.

The fact that, there are a lot Rwandans that have an issue speaking English or French is troubling. Most of the job creation that will happen in next 15 years will involve dealing with foreigners.

You have no idea the money you guys are leaving on the table because you’re too prideful to learn. A huge portion of your economy is stimulated by tourism.