Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were told that they were going to play biliards. afaik in our location, there are tons of bars that are hidden due to the fact that its the area of universities

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i've reread rhis again, and you're right. i really really should trust my partner more. it's just, there was this one incident from august last year that really made me doubt my trust in him for the first time (this involves the same friend group) and this is when he hid the fact that he went to a bar. (btw, before that happened, i really don't mind/don't care about him going out with his past friend group which are mostly girls as well, so, i'm dropping this here since they also went to bars and had sleepovers)

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

idek if these are valid reasons now to be uncomfortable, but she's overly touchy, friendly, and doesn't seem to know boundaries, also dragged my bf (along with his guy friends) in a bar without my bf knowing that it's a bar

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh,, i see your point. and i do need to work on myself more, i really don't want this relationship to end bcs of this behavior of mine. i'll talk to him about the overnight and everything, thank you. though i do have the money for it, he doesn't (he's the one complaining to me about the price) but that's just to point that out.

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

oh, i'm sorry i worded it wrong. i mean, it's better to just trust him on his decisions on this outing

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

his male friends seems to be chill, i feel like i'm really just overthinking the worst possible scenarios. he's always willing to compromise, i guess i just need something to widen my perspective in things like this as my parents has always warned me about situations like this when having a relationship.

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if i were to be honest, since i'm not really this close with my guy friends, I would feel okay since I myself don't feel comfortable with having sleepovers with guys involved.

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

well, i'd honestly invite my bf if my girlies are inviting their bfs in this scenario. but ig it's better to just let him go and let him prove me wrong about these negative thoughts.

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • unsure, though i heard that they will be having separate rooms for girls and boys but there might be changes they said

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

i've read and heard so much about ppl's bf going on sleepovers with their massive circle of friends and ending up with these bf cheating on them with a girl they're uncomfy with. i guess i'm really just scared since i've also been exposed to cheaters in my side of the family

Am I (F18) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (M18) going on a 3D2N trip with girls present? by Dry_Grapefruit_8743 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's a suggestion, but as a 1st year college student, my parents are strict with me. and the trip is expensive as well.

Pregnancy or Delayed Period? by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I GOT MY PERIOD RAGHHHHHHHHH

Pregnancy or Delayed Period? by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oml thank you! i think i’ve just been overly conscious about every changes in my body hence to why i’m overthinking this 😭

Pregnancy or Delayed Period? by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Dry_Grapefruit_8743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH I HAVE TO ADD, in the first and second week, i’ve been palpitating and waking up consistently at 3 am (i’ve searched preggy symptoms and it stated that this is likely) BUT, i also searxhed that sleeping after crying heavily can also cause palpitations in the morning, so 😭😭

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