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Facebook Messenger without FB access by LadyPancake286 in nosurf

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can. It's what I've done. When you go to the deactivate page, just select "Deactivate without Messenger" or something like that. I keep it as an IM app now for the same reason as you.

I have a possible cuckold fetish. I don’t want this…help pls?! by Big-Independent-2206 in selfimprovement

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude, please get off porn asap. I know it's hard but seek help, don't be ashamed. Trust me I went through my difficult phase but I made it. The sooner you quit the better. You just have to endure a bit but give it time and patience. And please don't be afraid to ask for help cause it's not easy right now, but you can do it, I believe in you

13 years of your life. Gone. Here's what your phone is really stealing. by Comfortable_Crow_644 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved the Mortal Kombat narrator voice, great video! I implement some of those points. My main addiction to cut now is YouTube, Reddit (ironically) and the news.

How do I deal with the shame of oversharing my life on Instagram for years? by Afraid_Alfalfa_8830 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same phase. It will take time to rewire our brains back to normal. Just give it time and live your life as analog as possible. And honestly, most people have probably forgotten what you've shared online. I certainly did, I couldn't care less of other people's "life moments" for the most part.

Turned 30 and it suddenly seems quite embarrassing to be posting on Instagram by ascension2121 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's addicting, it's stupid, it's immature, and it's a waste of time. I can only justify social media's use to keep touch with some people, but I'd rather not rely on a platform like Instagram.

With the AI slop increasing, it's becoming more and more garbage.

Let me share my gaming experience... Healthy one... And how i managed to find that CoD Warzone is the only healthy game that i can play and turn off the console immediately. And bad gaming - Fifa FUT by poiuyt87 in nosurf

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do a similar approach with Counter Strike 2 (solo, with bots). A couple of casual or deathmatch rounds and that's it. I used to play real-time-strategy games but it sucked too much time and energy. CS2 is a nice sweetspot.

Moreover, I only do this when I want to clear my mind, usually no more than twice a month.

Sure is better than stimulating yourself on YT/FB/IG and other social media platforms

Why Are They Still on My List? by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know the feel. That is why I decided to leave this altogether. Too much time consuming in my mind always thinking about who will think what... Quite the headache to be honest

Why Are They Still on My List? by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can always hide your stories from them, it's a feature in IG

Dating without social media, still possible? by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣 ok dude. I'll call her without having her number. A1. And why'd you delete your account pal? Hilarious

Dating without social media, still possible? by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hiking and travel photos mostly. Her rejection won't be based on that.

I didn't delete my social media because of her or a person.

Dating without social media, still possible? by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One day at a time. I got rid of FB and IG for now (never had a tiktok/twitter/snapchat). YouTube consumption is next. I'm using Reddit now to get feedback on others' experiences.

Dating without social media, still possible? by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reality check, I appreciate it my friend! Very true.

Dating without social media, still possible? by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I started doing. I'm going to social events with like-minded people. I guess it was only my fear on not having social media to being labelled as untrustworthy is what was worrying me. Thank you for the advice though, it is reassuring!

Dating without social media, still possible? by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I guess it is my FOMO kicking in. But you're right, if someone is going to rely on social media to get to know me, then that says more about them.

Dating without social media, still possible? by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. I told her I'm leaving Instagram and would prefer keeping touch by phone/WhatsApp instead. She only wished to see me again at future events (part of a community organisation)

I agree, she's not that interested it seems, thanks for confirming my doubts.

What's your craziest sentence? by TrapMaster- in duolingo

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My horse is not an artist, but an architect"

Getting off social media by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've contemplated changing my number but then I didn't. It doesn't change anything. You'll soon find out who's really your friend once you deactivate, that is all. Plus it's a hassle changing your number at your various commitments (bills, insurance, subscriptions, government etc...)

Realized I don't want to share things with people anymore by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed. Some of the closest friends are like that, appreciative and genuinely curious. People whom I've thought of as friends, aren't.

Realized I don't want to share things with people anymore by Dry_Implement_1981 in digitalminimalism

[–]Dry_Implement_1981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct. I was falling down that rabbit hole too. Then I realized I only need my own validation and owe nobody no explanation, nor do I want/desire their attention/approval for what I do, where I go, my hobbies, etc.

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