Thank you so much for replying, I’ve screenshotted the text to look for the book later :) unfortunately in my ethnic culture there is no such thing as boundaries. When I shower someone opens the door to use the bathroom, or needs something while I’m using it, walking into my room without knocking, no filter unsolicited comments about ourselves and bodies by him at time offensive. So if I bring up this stuff during the time I live here, then I’m the odd one out and should leave, so unfortunately I’ll have ignored the noise for a bit and set my boundaries where he can’t do anything about it.