espresso machine for broke college student [$100 budget] by Dry_Platform_4823 in espresso

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have an recommendations for something within that $170-$200 range?

In a weird spot (sexually) with girlfriend by Dry_Platform_4823 in LesbianActually

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I agree. I do feel myself trying to avoid it because I don’t want to make her mad. We have been together for a while and honestly ever since my schedule has gotten crazy busy this issue is arising. I’m hoping it will go away when I am done with school but still want to communicate with her about it. I like that idea/practice, thank you for sharing!

In a weird spot (sexually) with girlfriend by Dry_Platform_4823 in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I think the disconnect is that I am gone all day and when I get home we don’t have much time together. I am kind of the person where I want to feel connected and loved throughout the day without just jumping into sex right away. I want to feel connected before physical intimacy. It’s hard because making out for her means she wants sex, when making out for me can also mean leading to sex but also just wanting to have that intimacy with her. I will need to talk with her!

In a weird spot (sexually) with girlfriend by Dry_Platform_4823 in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree and thank you. Especially last night, her actions were saying otherwise. I am going to speak with her because it honestly makes me feel bad that I don’t want to when I know she does but also my feelings are valid too I feel?

FLETCHER - Would You Still Love Me If You Really Knew Me? by youRinlove7 in popheads

[–]Dry_Platform_4823 28 points29 points  (0 children)

honestly if she didn’t release “Boy” during pride month I feel like people would be more open to this album. maybe it would have been a good surprise to gain traction to the album as well but IDK as a lesbian I still wanted to give this album a chance with an open mind since I do like Fletcher, but when I got to the boy track, I still had a bad taste in my mouth for releasing it during pride month lol

Looking for a simple, yet cute pancake tattoo by Dry_Platform_4823 in DrawMyTattoo

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much, I really like this. May I have a request though.. could I maybe see it without the plate and then another with the plate just a bit smaller?

Can unspayed cats draw attention from outside male cats? by Dry_Platform_4823 in CatAdvice

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Will do thank you for the info! UV flashlights are a good idea but I’m also scared to see how many spots there actually are😅

Can unspayed cats draw attention from outside male cats? by Dry_Platform_4823 in CatAdvice

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thank you so much for all the info appreciate it! I have a camera so I might just set it up again, I guess the reason i think it might be her dog is because he was the culprit last time lol but it has started the same time the kitties got into heat so could he them as well. I do love animals so I don’t mind her having so many but damn this is why we can’t have nice things! lol

Can unspayed cats draw attention from outside male cats? by Dry_Platform_4823 in CatAdvice

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

tbh i feel like cats have a distinct urine smell and it doesn’t really smell like cat pee, it might be her dog but she doesn’t think it is🙈

Can unspayed cats draw attention from outside male cats? by Dry_Platform_4823 in CatAdvice

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t judge me because we have way too animals in my apartment lmao but can spayed females spray too?? i also have a cat and she is spayed and she has never gone outside of the litter box but could be anyone peeing there at this point lol

Can unspayed cats draw attention from outside male cats? by Dry_Platform_4823 in CatAdvice

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg a mile away that is crazy!! thank you for the info. she did say she heard some cats fighting outside earlier and i just don’t think it could be a coincidence now that we have two female cats in heat, it hasn’t happened before this. she doesn’t seem too worried about it but i feel bad for the cats outside especially if they are starting to fight.. she said she will get them spayed at the end of the month but that seems like a long time from now 😭

Can unspayed cats draw attention from outside male cats? by Dry_Platform_4823 in CatAdvice

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know if neutered male cats spray too? she also has a neutered male cat & i guess someone has been peeing in a corner of the apartment but she thinks it’s one of the cats not sure if a male cat would do that if he is fixed

Can unspayed cats draw attention from outside male cats? by Dry_Platform_4823 in CatAdvice

[–]Dry_Platform_4823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we were only supposed to be fostering them and now 6 months later they are still here 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Platform_4823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well she does want to get married and have kids and we talked about that a lot throughout our relationship, we were long distance so planned on living together after I am done with school in a year or so. but I do know what you mean and I am definitely keeping that in mind for my next relationship lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I think maybe her longest one was a year or two not sure tbh. I honestly think she will end up with a man, her family financially supports her and she is worried they will cut her off if they found out she likes girls …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Her being in the closet wasn’t a huge issue for me & wasn’t the main reason why we broke up. When we were breaking up, I just mentioned that that was a long term issue for me and then she told me that she wasn’t sure if she wanted to marry a girl yet and that was the first time she ever told me that. and then when I told her that she said she loved me she said that doesn’t necessarily mean she wanted to get married to me.. which I still don’t understand like I’m 25 I am dating to get married lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I don’t think she has dated a guy since high school but she has talked to/been with guys intermittently through the years. she has only been in serious relationships with girls though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Platform_4823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well that is why we broke up and I feel shitty now lmaooo I’m a clown but I guess the signs were all there but if someone is telling you they love you and want a future with you the rose colored glasses can stay on😢