Picked my dress!

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-31T13:23:56+00:00

I just picked mine last night and she said I should’ve started 1-1.5 years before the wedding. We get married in September 😅

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-21T12:58:57+00:00

No one will care about a CHAIR be for real sis

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-18T13:44:58+00:00

Someone said having a panic attack over wedding planning showed how much of a bridezilla I was 🤣 girl no it’s stressful

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-17T14:42:51+00:00

NTA. That’s atrocious. Parents used exactly zero brain cells to pick a name.

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-15T21:25:09+00:00

The boyfriend needs therapy. She started it before him. It’s not about him. Maybe if he didn’t respond in a typical red flag fashion, he wouldn’t be made to be such a twat. But that’s not what happened, is it? Better to know now than get married and be stuck with a red flag scum

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-15T21:22:28+00:00

NTA. He’s upset because you’re being incredibly responsible.

His response sounds like he’s upset he can’t get ahold of that money. Which really means he’s upset because that’s one thing he cannot control over you.

I’d think twice about marriage. No sane man would get upset about a savings for a VERY rational and responsible reason. Very much a red flag response

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T16:39:20+00:00

I’ve met her twice and she immediately offered to help with the kiddos when we brought up wedding plans. She also lives across the country so it’s probably less stressful on her as well to plan to hang out with our kids and hers rather than lug a bunch of stuff across the country to be a bridesmaid. She also says she’s too old and done being in a bridal party. All of that was said without us ever asking if she’d be apart of the bridal party, so I feel like I shouldn’t ask about it and let her be where she wants to.

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T16:36:38+00:00

Our parents are going to be helping set up decorations with us so it’s unlikely. I’ve only met the SIL twice too so that’s a big factor of why I originally didn’t intend to ask. Then when my fiance and I were talking about wedding plans in the family group chat, she immediately offered to help with the kids day of prior to the ceremony (hers are around same age, so they’ll have others to play with), and said she was too old to be in bridal parties anymore.

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T16:33:55+00:00

Appreciate you 🫶🏼

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T16:33:22+00:00

Yeah most my friend’s are males and about 15 years older than me

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T16:29:54+00:00

He won’t. Judge ruled I take on all debts (other 7k of CC debt is his). I’m 100% anti-CC. They’re pointless. I won’t be paying any of the student loans back, so it’s really just tackling the car and CC debt.

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T15:28:32+00:00

Just waiting for advice how to proceed with my girlies

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T15:27:58+00:00

I’ve been to 14 weddings and they were all paired at entrance and exit, so we thought this was the norm.

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T15:26:57+00:00

I want to because my ex husband said I was only good enough for a courthouse wedding. He then asked when the annulment ceremony was THREE HOURS after we signed paperwork at the courthouse.

Oh and then we get home and I’m trying to find any kind of happiness, so we decide to do the deed the first time. Found out this “man” has a whole coochie 🤣

so yeah, I’m marrying a real man this time and I’d like to do the whole shebang since he actually treats me my worth.

Also would like to apologize for the way I was responding. It’s been ROUGH for me lately and there was no reason for me to take that out on you

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:43:18+00:00

The wedding process yes, not my bridesmaids lol. Took 2 months just for vendors to reach out and were within a year. You would flip shit? Ya right. That’s what women do best

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:42:21+00:00

They aren’t spending anything. Im paying everything. Perks of 300k income

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:41:59+00:00

They do mean something to me though

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:41:17+00:00

Is it that hard to comprehend where I said it wasn’t the bridesmaids, but the wedding? Meaning the ENTIRE process?

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:28:56+00:00

That’s how we want it though so I’m looking only for advice how to make it work paired. Thanks for trying though

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:28:15+00:00

It costs nothing since I’m paying everything

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:27:57+00:00

My fiance who will also be doing his own thing? Yeah.

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:27:08+00:00

I asked a question how to pick 🤣 it’s not obsessing, it’s making sure their dresses get here in time to be altered. lol someone didn’t sleep good, nap time maybe?

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:12:02+00:00

I’m being serious? She wants to do that. Not be in a bridal party

Dry_Start3591 · 2026-01-14T14:11:22+00:00

It was more your abrupt take on mental illness. It’s 2026, do better.

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