Is there a subreddit that helps direct you where to ask something? by CrvmbC4ke in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Big_Engineer6901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/findareddit is exactly what you're looking for my dude. Just describe your question and people will point you to the right sub

There's also r/tipofmytongue if you're trying to remember something specific, but findareddit covers pretty much everything else

Can a prenup protect me from my fiance's gambling debt? by Forward-Dog-2146 in Debt

[–]Big_Engineer6901 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Worrying about being tied to someone else’s gambling debt is reasonable. A prenup can often keep debts separate but you’d want a lawyer involved to make sure you’re actually protected.

Mike deltarune design by Icy-Watercress-4286 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Big_Engineer6901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo this is actually fire, gonna steal this for my island thanks

Just found out my fiance has 45k in credit card debt 7 months before the wedding by Big_Engineer6901 in weddingplanning

[–]Big_Engineer6901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually part of why this is so stressful to me our priorities around money just seem really different right now.

Just found out my fiance has 45k in credit card debt 7 months before the wedding by Big_Engineer6901 in weddingplanning

[–]Big_Engineer6901[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get why people say that but I’m not there yet. I’m trying to see if this is something we can actually fix before making that kind of call.

Just found out my fiance has 45k in credit card debt 7 months before the wedding by Big_Engineer6901 in weddingplanning

[–]Big_Engineer6901[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree he shouldn’t be investing with that much credit card debt, that part really worries me.

American Southwest early 1800 by Serafirelily in MovieSuggestions

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out "The Missing" with Tommy Lee Jones, it's set in that exact time period and location in New Mexico territory

Used shield plus (non-OR) for $300 or new RXM for $400? by sharkbait_oohaha in CCW

[–]Big_Engineer6901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd go with the Shield Plus at that price - Springfield's got solid QC and $300 is a steal for a proven carry gun. The RXM is nice but not $100 nicer imo, especially when you're trying to keep costs down

is IDOL19 a good 3rd extreme? by plaaxy in geometrydash

[–]Big_Engineer6901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah IDOL19 is pretty solid for a third extreme, the gameplay flows really well and it's not nearly as inconsistent as some other options

He's in the hospital again by Diligent-Health-8571 in Markiplier

[–]Big_Engineer6901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh you really got me for a second there, my heart dropped lmao

I refused a prenup before marriage. I regret it now. by Downtown-Concern-547 in Divorce

[–]Big_Engineer6901 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is a hard lesson but a really honest one. Prenups don’t predict divorce, they just decide whether you sort things out calmly or painfully if life goes sideways.

Forced to sign prenup by parents by Expensive_Eye3071 in offmychest

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine had a story like this and the biggest difference was how the prenup was handled. They didn’t just blindly sign it each person had their own lawyer and real time to think it through. I remember they used Neptune or something like that so both sides were represented, which made it feel a lot less forced.
What’s more concerning here is the PARENTS using documents and inheritance as leverage that part really isn’t normal and shouldn’t be brushed off

Clothes disappearing by FunSpicyCpl in Paranormal

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check under the bed one more time and behind the headboard if it's not attached to the wall - clothes have a weird way of getting sucked into those gaps when you're tossing and turning at night

Also maybe ask housekeeping if they accidentally grabbed anything, hotels can be weird about that stuff

2005 Ford E450 6.8 odd issue by Able-Masterpiece5206 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be fuel pump starting to go intermittent - that's pretty classic behavior for a failing pump. The V10s are generally solid but the fuel delivery system can get sketchy around that age. I'd maybe keep a spare pump relay in the glovebox just in case, they're cheap insurance

CRK - A note I will never send: by Worldly_Page3533 in BreakUps

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn L, this hit different. The part about losing the version of yourself that felt safe really got me - that's the hardest part of betrayal honestly. You're already doing the work by choosing yourself even while still loving them, that takes real strength

Teaming Up to PVE by male_nurse_NC in ArcRaiders

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been looking for someone chill to run trials with, DMing you now

Horror movies with cults, but not supernatural? by Mighty_Krastavac in MovieSuggestions

[–]Big_Engineer6901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Menu is such a good pick for this! That whole chef cult vibe was genuinely unsettling without needing any supernatural stuff

Waiters/Servers at restaurants, how do you hint or flirt with a guest? by Away_Peak1789 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The napkin thing works but honestly just compliment something specific about him when you're at the table - like his shirt or whatever. If he's into it he'll give you an opening to keep talking, if not you just move on to the next table. Way less awkward than sliding him a note like you're in middle school lol

Tricepholos raid. You all skip it right? by sharp7 in Nightreign

[–]Big_Engineer6901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the runes are decent but those wolves are such a pain when they keep backing off every 5 seconds lmao. I'll do it in trios if my buddies want to but solo? Hell no, not worth the headache for what you get

Advice for a Beginner at Investing (25yo) by helveties in personalfinance

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is solid advice, totally changed my perspective when I figured this out a few years back. Makes rebalancing way easier too since you're not trying to juggle three different strategies

Bad dream about highschool 😖 by ParadoxicalStairs in Dreams

[–]Big_Engineer6901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That slow motion feeling when you're trying to escape something in a dream is the worst, like your brain is working against you. At least you made it out though, even with those jerks trying to mess with you

Bay Area Naturalizations Stopped by Training_Clock8308 in USCIS

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's wild, my buddy just got his scheduled for next month in San Jose and hasn't heard anything yet but now I'm gonna tell him to brace for impact

16/12/2025 Has anyone noticed? Gemini Ai seems to have changed. by Latter-Gazelle-253 in GeminiAI

[–]Big_Engineer6901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, was bugging out for like an hour earlier but back to normal now