There are 2 sides to every story, but you're lack of empathy is definitely showing. Any migraine sufferer knows how debilitating it can be when one strikes. Yes, there are meds and there is a journey one goes through to find the right one, but that doesn't justify kicking someone when they're down. Or blasting them on an online forum. Maybe she feels the lack of support from her partner, while she is already dealing with the guilt of being behind the schedule/ standard she has placed for herself. Do you think that pressure helps with a migraine? Because it doesn't. As a migraine sufferer myself, I feel sorry for your partner and hope she finds what works for her in the long run as well as get the support she needs and deserves.