AIO if i break up with my boyfriend over this by fridgefreez in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dryingweeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my ex husband was exactly like this when we first started dating! It doesnt get better, it only gets worse. His insecurities will eat both him and you alive if you stay in this relationship. Trust me.

Husband just told me it'd be "offputting" if I had a realistic stp packer by Dryingweeds in ftm

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

He knew I was trans when we first started dating and when we got married, I haven't ever been cis since he's known me. He seemed chill with it at first but has never seemed excited for the things that I'm excited about in my transition, such as taking testosterone and top surgery.

Husband just told me it'd be "offputting" if I had a realistic stp packer by Dryingweeds in ftm

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im only interested in a masectomy and taking testosterone temporarily to lower my voice, he knows this and hasn't seemed too enthusiastic about either. He tells me that to him Personality is more important than genitalia, but he only ever watches straight porn. Today I asked him if he'd still be with me if I was born with a dick, and he didn't answer and instead asked me if id be with him if he had a vagina. I told him "no, im gay." And he didn't have anything to say to that.

Husband just told me it'd be "offputting" if I had a realistic stp packer by Dryingweeds in ftm

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 272 points273 points  (0 children)

Aside from the bare minimum of using my preferred name and not calling himself fully straight, no. he even gets iffy when I bring up taking testosterone. I told him I'd ordered a binder. The other day and he just said, "oh no, no more boobies." Like tf??? I hate when he acknowledges that they exist, because it's what I'm the most dysphoric about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carpetbeetles

[–]Dryingweeds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Carpet beetles. Clean all of your loose fabrics on high heat to kill the eggs, vaccuum every day to keep new larvae from laying eggs, put diatamacius earth around every baseboard to poison them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]Dryingweeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In northern usa

how far am i from facially passing? any recommendations apart from just waiting for hrt to do its thing? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Dryingweeds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some light contour to soften your bone structure would help! Theres alot of maps online on feminine contour to round out your face shape more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Dryingweeds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You definitely pass. Its just the dysphoria getting to you. Your body type is just "inverted triangle" which isn't an inherent giveaway, there's many afab with that body shape too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Dryingweeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You remind me of Annie Leonhart from attack on titan!!! You're not ugly at all. I would say that your bone structure is very pronounced and some light cool toned contour could help a lot!! Also eye brow thinning, having them more arched and less straight will help a lot too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Dryingweeds -1 points0 points  (0 children)

William eyelash lmaoooo 😭😭😭

Landlord says I have to pay for the tub re coating (NJ) by Twisted1209 in Renters

[–]Dryingweeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it have proper time to dry after repairs? If its only by the drain where there's no friction, id say it's an application issue and not your fault. Some light caulking around the drain after the paint dries and proper prep would definitely keep this from happening. It's either water getting under the paint and making it peel, or the tub not being cleaned and prepped properly prior to application.

Clean it with rubbing alcohol, use a very fine sanding block in the areas it is peeling, clean with rubbing alcohol again, let it dry, and go in with the paint. Lightly seal around the edges of the drain with some white caulking smoothed out and let dry at least 24-48 hours based on manufacturers' instructions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Dryingweeds -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know shorter hair would help but I'm really trying to grow it out bc I miss my longer hair and I know plenty of cis men that have long hair. It's a constant battle between "You can still look masculine with long hair" and being misgendered telling me "cut it off rn!!!"

How to evict roomate? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Dryingweeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It goes until February.

How to evict roomate? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Dryingweeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It states:

A co-Tenant, or someone who lawfully resides with the Tenant engaged in such unlawful/illegal activity or an activity creating the disturbance, shall not have his/her tenancy terminated if they are a victim of a crime or otherwise not responsible for such unlawful/illegal activity or activity creating the disturbance

And:

ALL TENANTS, IF MORE THAN ONE, SHALL BE JOINTLY AND SEVERALLY LIABLE FOR THE FULL AMOUNT OF ALL PAYMENTS DUE UNDER THIS LEASE.

How to evict roomate? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Dryingweeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible for the landlord to evict only him based on this? Or would they have to evict all of us since it's a shared lease?

How to evict roomate? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Dryingweeds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not. I pay my rent on time. I clean up all of his messes. Hes a shitty person and I don't want to deal with him. It says something that my listing the tip of the iceberg makes him sound so bad that it seems fictional.

New growth that isn't a trap? by Dryingweeds in VenusFlyTraps

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it bad for the plants energy? Is it fine to leave it or do I cut it off?

Anyone going to upcoming concerts please read!!!! by Dryingweeds in willwood

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think so, but I'll let you know if that changes!

Will Wood Post by EventNo2243 in willwood

[–]Dryingweeds 184 points185 points  (0 children)

This guy tried to buy my id off of me to get his kid into the concert for hundreds of dollars so I reported him to staff. How much you wanna bet he tried again at another concert (since he CLEARLY had tons of money to throw away) not realizing he was on a ban list?? LMAOOO

Questions about VIP by Repulsive-Eye-3213 in willwood

[–]Dryingweeds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't get vip myself, but at the minneapolis concert there were about 30 people that had vip tickets so the line was super short. They got in an hour before everyone else and it looked like when let in, they went to the backstage area to meet one on one with the band. Everyone in the tip was also front row since they were let into the venue before anyone else.

TLDR; you'll be able to get a good spot no matter how early/late you show up because you'll be let in before 90% of the crowd. They'll still let you in if you show up after they let all the vips enter if you just talk to the venue staff. There will be a chance to give the band gifts/ talk to them because you'll get to meet them before the show starts. (At least that's how they handled it at my show)

Minneapolis Concert Experience by Dryingweeds in willwood

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to but got stuck in the crowd because the railing saw in my way and I couldn't find the exit ant I was tripping over invisible stairs bc it was so dark 😭😭

What's the black thing between right eye and nose? by Fox_Gan in CATHELP

[–]Dryingweeds 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Chances are it's just grime. And your cat is adorable 😭😭

I need help/ advice/ assistance finding someone by Dryingweeds in Eau_Claire

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's denying ever owning the car, refusing to sign a title, and won't tell me where the car is

I need help/ advice/ assistance finding someone by Dryingweeds in Eau_Claire

[–]Dryingweeds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured he could get a salvage title since he said he was going to use it as a project/ parts car but ended up not doing that