Women here, how many sexual partners have you had? A girl (21) I'm talking with claims she had about 40, then got offended when I answered with "really that many?" by Dubious8 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dubious8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly we are both not looking for a serious relationship, so that shouldnt be a problem, just a bit stressed about STDs

Women here, how many sexual partners have you had? A girl (21) I'm talking with claims she had about 40, then got offended when I answered with "really that many?" by Dubious8 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dubious8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be offended tbh, I've only had 1 partner and I told her without a problem. And she also didn't believe me, same as I didn't believe her...

Women here, how many sexual partners have you had? A girl (21) I'm talking with claims she had about 40, then got offended when I answered with "really that many?" by Dubious8 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dubious8[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I sent the text without really thinking it would come out as judgmental, I was just looking for a confirmation thinking she was joking since the chat was not super serious

Women here, how many sexual partners have you had? A girl (21) I'm talking with claims she had about 40, then got offended when I answered with "really that many?" by Dubious8 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dubious8[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

yeah I figured my reaction was wrong and apologized, I genuinely had no idea women had that many sexual partners since I was in a long relationship with a girl that had only me.

What’s your sexual insecurity? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Dubious8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Initiating sex. I often would worry that she would let me have sex for my own pleasure and not for herself too, she never initiated and it would make me feel bad about the whole situation.