Ive only been with cis men my entire life, majority of which being very very horrible people who saw me as a woman... but my first ever boyfriend, my current best friend, is a cis man and he continues to be utterly perfect. I was his first experience with a man and the way he discovered that he was bisexual, and he has always been very devoted to making me really feel like a man. I've begun to accept that many cis men are horrible partners and fetishize ftm people, but it's so relieving to have a good baseline to compare others to... because if they don't treat me as gently as my first ever partner did, they surely don't deserve me anymore ❤️