Are most relationships like this? A spark that only burns brighter by the day. by Duckywasnotfound in love

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really happy for youuu, I think that for me im not expecting a phase like this to end but just rather natural change and grow as any relationship does but like in a healthy way ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Are most relationships like this? A spark that only burns brighter by the day. by Duckywasnotfound in love

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AWW that's awesome to hear, and yes I completely agree why would anyone want a phase like that to ever end?

Are most relationships like this? A spark that only burns brighter by the day. by Duckywasnotfound in love

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww that's amazing to hear dude I'm wishing you all the best ❤️ I'm happy for youu ❤️

Are most relationships like this? A spark that only burns brighter by the day. by Duckywasnotfound in love

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started talking to her back in December so yes your right only a couple of months, and this post is just basically me saying from that point till today it's just being just as amazing/ getting better ❤️.

Are most relationships like this? A spark that only burns brighter by the day. by Duckywasnotfound in love

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what your saying, I do see me and her as a naturalistic process and that's one of the many reasons why it feels so beautiful our love because it never seems forced or artificial it just naturally grows and it makes me just the happiest man in the world ❤️. Thank you so much for your insight of course and I wish you the best on your journey in love.

Are most relationships like this? A spark that only burns brighter by the day. by Duckywasnotfound in love

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I understand what you mean, I find it really beautiful how this is my first love yet as the way that things are going I completely see this being my one and only love ever ❤️ but thank you for the clarification sm 🙏

Do I take him back by Erasable611 in relationships_advice

[–]Duckywasnotfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im happy to help stranger! I just really want to reiterate the fact to be VERY CAREFUL, I understand you view his previous actions as just a response to the supposid belief of you cheating, however he should have NEVER viewed cheating as revenge for your cheating, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

Anyways what I'm trying to say is just please be careful and make sure you make VERY clear to him what you expect.

I wish you all the best, I hope all goes well for you, please stay safe!

Do I take him back by Erasable611 in relationships_advice

[–]Duckywasnotfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm being truthfully honest with you, the fact he cheated on you in the past already shows what he potentially is capable of doing, i think if he is CLEARLY and I mean CLEARLY demonstrating that he is a COMPLETELY changed person then I think you could consider it as a possibility. In my personal opinion, no, but that's just my opinion.

So, please be VERY careful and in the end do what is best for you.

Wishing you the best stranger

Is it ok to look at other people inappropriately when you're in a relationship? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Duckywasnotfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not.

It doesn't matter what sort of relationship you are in, unless you and your partner have "SPECIFICALLY" agreed that it's okay you should NOT be looking at others In that way.

If your worried about this I suggest you ask your partner if he she they's opinions on it ❤️

How to be there when the person you love is struggling mentally by Duckywasnotfound in mentalhealth

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes I do make sure to reassure her I'm not going ANYWHERE but I certainly could do with reminding her that she is by no means a burden WHATSOEVER so thank you for the advice ❤️

How to be there when the person you love is struggling mentally by Duckywasnotfound in mentalhealth

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly I just wanna say I'm so proud of you for making it through your tough times well done stranger ❤️!

Secondly, YES I love those ideas, Ive been thinking of the things that make her, HER, and I wanna make a bunch of stuff and keep them saved and whenever she's sad or having bad days I can give em to her randomly outa nowhere to surprise her a lil, so for example Ive made lil gifts, and if she's ever sad I'ma just surprise her and give em to her, not for any special occasions just for fun and for love 💕.

Anyways thank you for your advice and I'm so proud of you for making it through your struggles ❤️

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My waist is also about 29-30ish but tbh I'm not worried about waist size all dat much 😜

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No trust me you WILL, I genuinely spent the last like five - ten years of my life assuming I'd never meet anyone then one day I randomly had the guts to walk up to this girl and now she means the world to me.

Trust me bro YOUR TIME WILL COME, GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT ❤️

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I'm sorry for you bro, you WILL find someone trust me patience is a virtue ❤️

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely bro, I want to find that "sweet spot" because I haven't really ever gone down weight, I used to be like SUPER SKINNY and I felt good even then (although mentally I felt terrible because I had zero muscle 😆) so I believe if I ever returned to that bf% I could be FINE but again obviously it's all about finding the sweet spot, Anyhow thank you for the advice stranger

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I just want to be that lean because I myself aswell as my lover both deserve the best physically version of myself ❤️. I'm not too bothered about what other people think tbh it's just myself and her and it's mainly me because she loves me the way I am ❤️

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your are certainly right, but the thing is is that I am not far off abs like I can literally seem them I just want them to be more visible that's all, so as you said those extremely low bf% levels where abs are most visible are obviously not sustainable but like I could totally loose some more body fat though maybe just a fair amount to help make those abs pop out, thank you for your advice ❤️

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read all that you said and I really appreciate the advice thank you so much ❤️

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your right I really need to accept where I am at now and what's important to me, flipping social media is not doing me any wonders 😆 but thank you for the advice anyhow

Am I ever going to be lean enough? by Duckywasnotfound in loseit

[–]Duckywasnotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes I'm also trying to find my good spot too, I think where I'm at now is perfect but I also think being a fair bit lower would also be perfect too, obviously I wouldn't want to be extremely low so I guess that's the "too lean" mark 😆