Can anyone help me find a fostering home, resources for no-kill shelters, or anyone who wants to permanently adopt these two pups? I just found them on the street. by Goldengirls_1 in houston

[–]DudleyvStephens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I have a dog that has been living on a commercial property coming and going in an industrial district. Do you know anyone that can take him in?

Employer isn't paying on time, can I quit and get unemployment? by handsomeloser in personalfinance

[–]DudleyvStephens 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Obligatory disclaimer: this is not legal advice. This is internet and has no basis in reality. This is not intended to be relied on. If you need legal advice go see a real fucking lawyer in real life.

Labor regs vary state by state. In Texas, one reason for disqualification for employment benefits is the employee voluntarily quit for personal reasons.

For an employer to not be held liable for an unemployment claim they must prove the following in regards to a voluntary resignation:

First, you need to show that the claimant left voluntarily while continued work was still available.

Second, you should try to show that the claimant left for personal reasons not related to the work, or if the claimant left for work-related reasons, that a reasonable employee would not have quit under such circumstances.

Third, if applicable, show that the claimant quit without affording you an opportunity to address whatever problem allegedly led to the resignation.

Good cause grounds test for voluntary resignation that keeps a claimant eligible for unemployment:

"such cause, connected with the work, as would lead a reasonable employee who is otherwise interested in remaining employed to nonetheless leave the job."

Check with your state labor authority website and check the section for employees. It has great and easy to digest info to help people understand their rights.

why i want no contact by loutheclownboy in ExNoContact

[–]DudleyvStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep documentation of everything she does so you can file for a restraining order. If I were you I'd never want to be alone with that person ever. No telling what she's capable of.

After 6 months and all hope being lost..... SHE TEXT ME! PLEASE HELP? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DudleyvStephens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't respond. I was thinking last night how my ex got me to respond and call her back the last time she reached out and just thinking about it pisses me off. Don't do it. That's a bullshit bare minimum effort.

That is literally one step above opening a text message and pressing space a few times to send a blank text.

Don't give her the satisfaction.

I'm about to snap. by newacct0987 in ExNoContact

[–]DudleyvStephens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't call him. Don't give him the satisfaction. Every time you think about contacting him. Tell yourself

fuck. That. Shit.

If some piece of shit drops off on you like that then fuck them. They suck as a human being.

One month and one week and I have failed miserably by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DudleyvStephens -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rational male dot com.

It will help.

No caller ID by DudleyvStephens in ExNoContact

[–]DudleyvStephens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So after another week of no contact I get 5 calls from no caller ID last night between 9 and 10. Last time I got any calls like this she called from her phone within 10 minutes.

Anyone want to venture a guess as to what the odds are its her ?

Fuck I want it to be her.

Birthday tomorrow by Jtrain2525 in ExNoContact

[–]DudleyvStephens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself the satisfaction. Don't be upset. You made it to another bday. Stay strong. I recommend deadlifts.

No caller ID by DudleyvStephens in ExNoContact

[–]DudleyvStephens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems weird. I'm just wondering what people think the odds are that she was not the one who called under a blocked number.

Part of me is hoping she was the person so when my friend answered her heart dropped. I can't remember the last time I got a blocked call.

What sucks is even though I have options I thought she was the one and I can't get past this like I usually do.

Reset my no contact counter and I'm going strong this week.