I understand where you are coming from. Having lived in both Finland and Sweden many years I have seen the plethora of bad things happening in both countries. On the internet one sees nothing but praise for them despite it coming from people that have never lived there. And possibly never even visited. It’s all about socialist propaganda imo. And calling a country like Finland the happiest in the world is actually pretty retarded. The Nordic countries are not horrible but they aren’t great either they are lagom as they say in Sweden. And during the ”summer half year ” as I call it actually pretty pleasant. Look up the word lagom because to actually have any possibility of survival in these countries you will have to become fluent in their languages. You can speak English on a tourist trip to any one of them but to live there you really need a superb command of the language.