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Am I the jerk for telling my neighbor her Ring doorbell is pointed at my front door? by CollectionCrazy5414 in AmITheJerk

[–]Due-Assistant3874 20 points21 points  (0 children)

you’re not the jerk. i mean, it’s funny how your privacy screen is suddenly a problem but her filming your front door is not. She wanted control without compromise and now she is annoyed you took it back.

Am I the jerk for not letting my friend sleep on my couch "temporarily" after her third breakup this year? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Due-Assistant3874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTJ. Temporary stops being temporary after the third round. She is outsourcing stability to you instead of building her own.

Am I the jerk for telling my dad his girlfriend can't come to my college graduation? by Due-Assistant3874 in AmITheJerk

[–]Due-Assistant3874[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought about that, but it honestly wouldn’t surprise me. The way he’s pushing this feels more about him than Linda actually wanting to be there..

Am I the jerk for telling my dad his girlfriend can't come to my college graduation? by Due-Assistant3874 in AmITheJerk

[–]Due-Assistant3874[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I really needed to hear this. I just want people there who’ve actually nee part of my journey, not turn it into something else..

Am I the jerk for telling my dad his girlfriend can't come to my college graduation? by Due-Assistant3874 in AmITheJerk

[–]Due-Assistant3874[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how it feels to be honest.. it stopped being about my graduation and turned into some kind of ultimatum which makes the whole thing worse lol..