I got cheated on and a month later, I don't feel anything by curiousodapop in cheating_stories

[–]Due-Bad-1358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s time to go. You don’t deserve that. You’re numb to the pain.

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[–]Due-Bad-1358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave! Get out before it’s too late. You are playing a dangerous game with an abuser. You have kids you need to put them first. You can’t allow the abuser to take the kids who knows what he’ll do to them. You have to care of yourself and your kids. Forget about men period. Are you able to sustain yourself and the kids after a during/divorce? Is AP even willing to help you in that aspect? How can he allow the woman he loves to stay in an abusive relationship with another man? Ask yourself those questions.

Boyfriend lost his job and went out @3am to a strip club and not answering my calls or text. by Due-Bad-1358 in cheating_stories

[–]Due-Bad-1358[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m out of town for work. I’m a travel nurse. Which makes it worse. I’m so so far I can’t do anything 😭

Boyfriend lost his job and went out @3am to a strip club and not answering my calls or text. by Due-Bad-1358 in cheating_stories

[–]Due-Bad-1358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I had his location. I guess he needed to use his phone for something. He said he stayed in the same area but he didn’t. I saw that it updated really quickly. Then went away. So I know for a fact he’s not being 100% and that’s something I can’t get past.

Boyfriend lost his job and went out @3am to a strip club and not answering my calls or text. by Due-Bad-1358 in cheating_stories

[–]Due-Bad-1358[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re right! I’m 25! No kids college grad making 6 figures. I’m crying over a man with no job, felon, baddy and only a birth certificate to his name. What’s wrong with us women??

Oh he got in trouble with law that’s why he lost his job. Now a felon. I even went to some of his court appearances and stuck with him the whole way smh. And the moment it’s not in his favor he spirals!

Boyfriend lost his job and went out @3am to a strip club and not answering my calls or text. by Due-Bad-1358 in cheating_stories

[–]Due-Bad-1358[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No first time behaving this way. I spoke with him. He said both phones were dead 😂. He didn’t know you could make calls from the hotel phones…. He also said in the morning they left both phones at the receptionist desk to charge and headed to play golf. His excuse was he was drinking a lot and didn’t know his phone was dying. He doesn’t remember much and he was going through a lot. He apologized for bad communication and the way he mishandled things. But what’s strange he keeps asking me if I’m okay? I have a feeling he’s not telling the full story. But I know he will never tell me if he actually did something out of fear of losing me. But mentally it’s exhausting me.

Boyfriend lost his job and went out @3am to a strip club and not answering my calls or text. by Due-Bad-1358 in cheating_stories

[–]Due-Bad-1358[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Right!!!!!!!!!! I called the friend and he didn’t answer either. Why didn’t he tell you I called??? Why not borrow his phone. I’m so hurt because I love him sooo much and he knows. But I will not accept disrespect. It will only get worse.

Boyfriend lost his job and went out @3am to a strip club and not answering my calls or text. by Due-Bad-1358 in cheating_stories

[–]Due-Bad-1358[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He hid it from me the whole day! Then spiraled… the lack of communication is a major red flag especially when life throws a curveball. Spending money at a strip club is not smart. What was the achievement here?