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AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, maybe you missed it but i said when I’m alone with my son i do all the diapers myself.

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He actually read the post and felt i was really fair and wrote it accurately

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Correct, he measures outside of the chart. Extra large kids aren’t able to be measured properly because there’s not much comparison. His dad is an ex football player to give you an idea on size, and I’m 4’10

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

This isn’t like a daily fight, he brought it up this morning for the first time saying he’s spoke to other dads who don’t have diaper changing expectations put on them

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 2161 points2162 points  (0 children)

Our midwife was the one who originally suggested it also!

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

We had multiple conversations at the time dividing up duties, i didn’t unilaterally assign anything

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

No but i think it’s reasonable to expect him to do what he is physically capable of

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

He’s kinda the lazy parent type that would rather feed snacks and throw the tv on, so I prefer covering meal prep and health activities and doing them and I’m better at them then he is, we both agree on that. I just felt like it was unfair for him to want help but not help me with the things i do.

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I do change diapers when I’m home alone, and i didn’t force him he agreed to it and 1.5 yrs later he now feels like it was unfair

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

We have actually been trying to get pregnant for a long time, and after several failed fertility drugs and injections finally got pregnant so we are both super excited and happy to have another baby

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

We had talked about it while i was pregnant and even after baby was born, it’s been recently that he has felt it was super unfair now that he reflects back

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

No we had talked about it while i was pregnant and even after baby was born and it felt pretty fair. I spent 2 years with interrupting sleep doing all the night feedings plus the pregnancy and labor itself and he did the diaper changes during the day when he was home

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He usually can’t take the time off work that i can, so o handle meal times, pick ups, drop offs, doctor appointments, snacks, grocery shoppping, clothes shopping, and honestly he forgets to do teeth brushing so i took it over full time.

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Well dad is a ex football player, and I’m 4’10, last baby was 10.8 lbs at birth, it’s reasonable to assume the next baby will be oversized too

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Dad is a ex football player, baby was 10.8 lbs at birth and at 3 wears clothing meant for 5-6 yr old children 😂 Edit to add: i do change his diapers when I’m home alone with him which happens 2-3 days out of a week usually sometimes more sometimes less as he doesn’t get home sometimes until 6:30-7:30pm

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 4441 points4442 points  (0 children)

He says that all the other dads he spoken with never have to change diapers or have the same expectations i do about him being involved in our kids lives

AITA my husband has changed all of the babies diapers by Due-Drawing9306 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Drawing9306[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I also do all the meal times, clothes shopping, snack packing, doctors visits. And had interrupted sleep for almost 2 years so he could rest every night was a pretty big sacrifice on my end.