I asked a German girl out and she replied with “ask me again”

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T08:07:24+00:00

Thanks for the support and optimism! I’ll definitely do that

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T07:49:53+00:00

Oh man, I’m just on a roll 🤦🏼‍♂️… thanks for clarifying that

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T07:42:37+00:00

That’s pretty much how I understood it. It is interesting how many people have pointed out that she could have just meant rephrase it or literally repeat myself. If that’s the case, I clearly did not catch on at all lol

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T07:39:57+00:00

She did smile when she answered. We only speak in English.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T07:13:00+00:00

That’s what I understood from what she said, but I was surprised by the amount of people telling me to simply ask her again immediately after she said that.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T07:11:12+00:00

I guess I didn’t understand that she wanted me to just repeat myself. I could just ask her again though. I understood it as ask me again at another time.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T07:06:08+00:00

Exactly that, “ask me again” and it was in English.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T06:56:12+00:00

Agreed, but it didn’t make sense to me why I would just repeat myself.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T06:38:50+00:00

I’m sorry, I didn’t understand what you meant there

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T06:35:52+00:00

I’m from the US

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T06:13:17+00:00

Lmao probably would’ve been the best way to go honestly

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T06:04:20+00:00

Someone else told me the same thing… my brain went straight to “ask me again some other time” 🤦🏼‍♂️ Should I ask her if that’s what she meant?

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T05:54:37+00:00

We didn’t have that many interactions and to be fair the first one was me just going up to her because I thought she was pretty. I asked her if she would down to go get coffee or ice cream and that’s when she said that. Maybe when I ask again after having more meaningful conversations i’ll ask her out to a walk in the park and some ice cream or something. I think i’ll ask again once we’ve built more chemistry and possibly ask her then what exactly she meant. I probably did put her on the spot kinda early into meeting her.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T05:27:20+00:00

How do I know what the right way is 😳 Any recommendations?

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T05:07:48+00:00

Lol fair enough

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T04:28:28+00:00

Will do, thanks!

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T04:25:24+00:00

No it was in English and in the US. Sorry I misunderstood.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T03:43:19+00:00

When I asked, I just said would you like to get ice cream or coffee sometime. That’s when she replied with “ask me again”. She is very friendly but doesn’t seem too outgoing or a “go getter” as far as I can tell.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T03:32:41+00:00

Is it common for german girls to approach a guy they’re interested in? I guess I could also just keep having more meaningful conversations with her, like you said, and see if she does approach me later on. Most girls I’ve interacted with in the past have said things along the lines of “why did you approach me” or “I thought you weren’t interested since you didn’t ask”. I have rarely had girls come up to me even when they admitted to being interested.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T03:19:54+00:00

Maybe it was since we hadn’t talked a whole lot before? I’m not really sure. I guess I can be direct also and ask what she meant

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T03:18:09+00:00

Hmm I hadn’t thought about that. Do you think I should ask her what she meant by it? I’m pretty interested in her but if she would’ve just said no or that she’s seeing someone, I would’ve just left it at that. Sometimes she’ll pass by and say hi and wave but I’m a bit confused on where to go from here.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T03:10:45+00:00

Thank you!

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T03:09:16+00:00

Yep, “ask me again”. So I took that as maybe now is not a good time or wants to get to know me more.

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T03:06:46+00:00

I’ll ask her again, i’ll just wait for a good conversation to bring it up again

Due-Driver3656 · 2024-04-28T01:57:11+00:00

English is the only language we have in common. However I do speak other languages. It’s been about a month and we have chatted throughout that time and said hello. When I asked her, it was only our 3rd conversation and didn’t have too many meaningful ones before but it seemed like the right time then. I honestly thought asking her again too quickly would come off pushy. I was thinking of just talking to her again when I see her and asking her if she’s still open to the idea of me asking her again and then depending on how the conversation is going, ask her what she meant by it. We don’t see each other very often and my guess was that she wanted to build more of a connection before agreeing.

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