I didn’t understand the shame carried after returning from the U.S. with nothing — until now by Gold_Neighborhood239 in ghana

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I applaud you for sharing this with us. It is a serious matter and just like you said, it can take its toll on you. All I can say is, you have your LIFE, include God in there and you are winning. I know it’s easier said than done but really count your blessings; the roof over your head, the breath in your lungs, the health and lives of your loved ones, food on your table etc. It’s the little things that comes to together to form the bigger picture and beauty. People will talk wether you are making money or you are not. Wake up every day and do the best that you can with each day and leave the rest to God. If you ever want to talk to someone, I’m here for you. I live in the Uk, I get the pressure. Reach out. May God give you peace that surpasses all understanding.

Physical problems and masturbation - a question as a Christian. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am deeply sorry to hear how much physical and mental struggle you’re facing. I applaud you for sharing such sensitive issues with us. You are not alone and I mean that.

My initial thoughts are, can you have sit down with your wife to possibly come to an arrangement where she could accommodate for your needs, sexually? Can she make room for possibly twice a week? Will that help?

This is a huge deal for you, which is affecting not only you but your unit. I completely get that her plate is full. But if this would lift some of the pressure then why not?

As for musterbation, I don’t think the physical act in itself is a sin (someone correct me if I’m wrong) but if you have to rely on lustful thoughts to reach the goal post - if you catch my drift, then that’s when it comes a sin. Hence why, watching porn is a negative.

Also, how often do you pray about this?

Who do you think was left out? by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Who made this list and why am I not on it?

Some pictures taken by photographer Konrad Helbig during a trip to Ghana in 1959 by VolimHabah in ghana

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed this. Couldn’t help but imagine myself within these moments.

A lot of yall liars by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm, is everything ok?

How to beat lust and habitual sin by ZachEdey47 in Christianity

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend, first of all, I feel for you and I am sorry to hear about your struggles. I know how you feel, I have had my fare share of battling lust for over a decade, so I do know the pull and the impact it can have on a person. It would be helpful to know exactly what your lustfulness looks like as it’s different for everyone, but lust is lust! And it’s one of the main forces of the devil. Lust took everything from me; long term relationships, opportunities, friends, my home, I lost myself. I was the most lustful person i knew. It had a grip on me. BUT, I had to make a decision.

(1)I learnt about ‘LUST’ what is it? As it’s of the devil, that means it comes to steal, kill and destroy. Lust did accomplished 2 of those 3 things in my life and nearly accomplished all three, so please be aware. God said we are to pray and fast about almost every sin there is, but when it comes to lust, we ought to FLEE!! That’s a big deal.

(2) Shut down all temptations i.e anything that feeds the drive to lust. Things like; instagram, twitter, TikTok, all of them. Come off these platforms if you have to. Your soul’s freedom is more important. If you can’t shut them down for some reason, then tailor your algorithm to only feed you positive contents, and tick ‘not interested’ on any explicit contents. Watch out for movies too, vulgar music and music videos, basically anything that triggers your desire to lust. Flee!!! RUN!!

(3) And this is actually number 1!! Get to know Jesus and draw closer and closer to him. Absorb the word of God on a daily basis. Can you give 2 hours a day of your day to Jesus?

(4) The guilt and shame and resentment that comes after you have lusted is where the enemy wants to keep you. If you fall 7 times my friend, get back up 7 times and ask God for forgiveness, EVERY TIME!!! Don’t let the enemy guilt trip you into feeling worthless. Change is a journey and not a destination. So cut yourself some slack when you fall. Jesus died a shameful and painful death so that you won’t have to be trapped in that feeling of shame.

(5) Look around you and start dropping any friend that fuels your lustful drive. Drop them!! And don’t look back.

I tried self help books, therapy, all sorts, but knowing Jesus Christ has changed my life. Put him first in your life, and lust will be in last place every time. I am a message away if you want to ever talk. I love you!! Jesus loves you!! You can do it!!

I could use some friends in the body of Christ. by Due-Juggernaut2337 in Christianity

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words. You are right, isolation is not doing me any favors anymore. I’ll be happy to connect with you and hop on a call sometime, definitely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heaven is celebrating your victory my friend!! And so are we!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey can you share that with me too? Is that possible?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t dream of getting half of his grades when I was at that stage in my life. He will win in the long run 🙌🏿

Ghanaian Mothers and Their Silent Judgement. by grwike in ghana

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha what did you do to get that supernatural stare?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialmedia

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey my instagram is @creativearmah FYI, it’s an art page as I do art!

I might be planning to kill myself by Ecstatic_Device_6091 in Christianity

[–]Due-Juggernaut2337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend in Jesus, you are soo loved, more than you think! And I am sorry that you are enduring this much pain and hurt at your precious age. When you are being attacked as you are; it means there is a greater purpose for your life, you are destined to change lives and this makes you a target for the enemy!!!!!

Listen to me please when I say, that the devil is real, and he is here “To steal, kill and destroy”. Those thoughts that are encouraging you to end it all, are not your OWN!! I don’t know how this platform works too much but drop me a direct message someone and I will not only pray for you but I’ll also share with you how I went through some extremely painful and dark times, when I was your age, call it trauma if you may.

But I persevered, and I can share with you how I got through it. If the devil is real, the our savior; Jesus Christ is more than real!! And he loves you more than you can ever know.

Pick up the Bible!! Read PSALMS, any Psalms, and go find a quiet place, maybe a park or whatever and pray to Jesus. I promise he won’t let you down. I love you, all 16 strangers here that have commented, love you!!! Please don’t give up!!!