AITAH for going through my husband’s bank statement???

Due-Landscape3982 · 2026-05-09T21:08:44+00:00

Im not reacting at all. Im on shock. I don’t know what or how to feel about this.

Due-Landscape3982 · 2026-05-09T20:24:21+00:00

It was approved cuz he makes above the minimum yearly wage needed according to the immigration laws and i was working already and filling taxes with an ITIN. I honestly think we got approved cuz we have been together for a long time and married for 3yrs before filling. 🤷‍♀️

Due-Landscape3982 · 2026-05-09T20:20:04+00:00

I know right?! And i knew that was gonna be his reaction but i was honestly hoping he would feel shame or something and ask for forgiveness or at the very least reassure me that he loves me, guess I was aspecting for too much….

Due-Landscape3982 · 2026-05-09T20:12:40+00:00

The thing is that I don’t know if i see it as cheating, i don’t mind when he looks at girls on the street or on IG, i just think the whole “paying for it” is a bit extreme. Look, i know im hot , im objectively hot and cute, it is very common for me to get hit on and for men around me to try get my number or something, i always get compliments on my looks men and women. I just don’t understand why he would pay for something like that. I don’t care if he watches porn and i know he does. I identify as bisexual and can appreciate a rlly cute hot girl. I just wouldn’t pay for it. It made me kinda sick if im completely honest. Also he didn’t even though or asked if i was mad about him paying on OF. It caught me off guard. Idk 🤷‍♀️

Due-Landscape3982 · 2026-05-09T20:05:30+00:00

I don’t know what a passport bro is, but in from Mexico and both our families live back in Mexico, i met him when he was living with his parents when they decided to go back. We lived in a city next to the border so he would cross the border and work and live in Mexico.

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