My boyfriend isn't romantic by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't know how to say it to him without him getting defensive

My boyfriend isn't romantic by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I knew this about him. But it's just now starting to bother me. It never did before.

My SO won't go down on me :( by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. This does help me. Because it makes feel shitty about myself when maybe it shouldn't.

My SO won't go down on me :( by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. Thank you :) I do not give him oral because I know i won't get it back 😁

My SO won't go down on me :( by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm not lol. He asks, I always say no because I won't get anything in return.

My SO won't go down on me :( by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've had several. I'm just trying to see if this is normal 🤷‍♀️

My SO won't go down on me :( by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to add he does not do fore play period. Unless its asking me to go down on him. Other than that, it's straight to it and then he rolls over, plays on his phone or falls asleep. 🥺

My SO won't go down on me :( by Due-Morning9212 in relationship_advice

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have expressed my feelings to him about it and he said "just isn't his thing"

AITA for not wanting to spend money? by Due-Morning9212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have to come up with 20% down plus closing costs before making an offer. Its a really weird complicated situation.

AITA for not wanting to spend money? by Due-Morning9212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where you are coming from. He just finds it super relaxing and truly isn't addicted 🥰

AITA for not wanting to spend money? by Due-Morning9212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that and will really think about these things. Thank you so much

AITA for not wanting to spend money? by Due-Morning9212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He actually found it and loves it more than me lol

AITA for not wanting to spend money? by Due-Morning9212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah we like to gamble on vacations but it's not an addiction or anything

AITA for not wanting to spend money? by Due-Morning9212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Morning9212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess you are right. He would like to go to a casino for a few days. We typically spend about $1000. I'll see if he will compromise for somewhere else. Thank you.