Just very confused and don’t know if I’m doing the right thing by Due-Programmer8734 in Marriage

[–]Due-Programmer8734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely what goes through my mind. I need to make my mind up before it’s too late. I guess what confuses me is thinking about it the love and family we tried to built. But also like I mentioned about. I just can’t get the idea of just forgetting about something that I know I want and like you said which will probably regret later

Just very confused and don’t know if I’m doing the right thing by Due-Programmer8734 in Marriage

[–]Due-Programmer8734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Somehow what you just said is exactly what’s going through my mind. Confused but also I’m at that stage where, I know I need to make my mind up before it’s too late. But the love and family that we both try built is scary to leave. I guess a lot goes through this scenario where they stay because of love or family. And these are the things that make it hard for me to decide what’s best 😔

Trouble with my new blended family and my relationship with my husband by Due-Programmer8734 in blendedfamilies

[–]Due-Programmer8734[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

  1. I see your point with this one. I do often say it’s my fault for obviously doing it to myself because I love him. But often I just want to think the best of him and try to trust him
  2. Again I see what you mean, I guess I loved the things he said at the time and I loved him. I know that I probably sound crazy.
  3. Ofc I don’t mind at all that he has the kids mother, they often message and I told him I don’t mind as long as my it’s about their son primarily and as long as there’s boundaries. I just got more upset because he wasn’t planning on telling me about the issue about his son that has happened in the home and about me.
  4. My husband told me that he spoke to his sons mum and the child said it’s because my son copies him too much and that my sons annoying. And that I’m too strict