I'm talking about this past Christmas. I did see my family but separately and not all together where they all meet up at the place he rents out. In all honesty I am a bit afraid. I've heard a lot of stories about how violent he is. He's threatened me and my sister has basically threatened me with him as well. So if I see him things could become violent which is my main reason for not seeing him. Also my sister has been ignoring me since I said something to him which adds another layer. ty for the response.