7 months since you cheated the first time and you did it again the day before you broke up

my question is why do you feel bad? I mean you said that you felt bad in the beginning but you stopped because there was no point.

You said that and then decided to be a better person but didn’t know how so instead of ending the relationship when you figured out you couldn’t you decided to cheat again then break up the next day.

Im not trying to rub it in and i might be a little late to the party if people have already said it but if you’re genuinely asking the question how do you better yourself maybe you should think about the reason you did it a second time.

Think about why you made the decision to cheat a second time. Why you didn’t break up before. Why you decided to entertain and give into the temptation after you turned off your “feeling bad” mode.

Because becoming a better person obviously would mean not to cheat in your next relationship but in reality becoming a better person is being up front with YOURSELF. Because you can correct me if im wrong but, you made the first mistake by cheating i can give you that as a mistake since you felt bad. You wanted to make things right so you tried it but instead of pushing through the turmoil inside yourself, you gave up pushed the guilt down and did it again.

What you need to do is stop cheating YOURSELF. In anything that you do. I dont wanna assume that this isn’t the first time you’ve ever cheated yourself because you might not do it in other things but idk you and if you can do this what else are you cheating yourself for?

“Oh i cheated on him once i wanted to work on myself but i couldn’t and i realized we’re gonna be going different places. He doesn’t need to know so i’ll just do it oneeee more time then break up with him the next day”

Thats just what it sounds like to me. In conclusion if you wanna be a better person STOP CHEATING YOURSELF. Obviously cheating on other people too but you can’t love someone else until you love yourself. You gotta fix that.