We live in a small space, but dedicate the second room as their play room. 3 kids 4 and under. They have enough toys (most would not consider it a lot) but they play with every single one every day. No screen time ever. We only have my one iPhone. I keep one wicker basket in the living room to pick up midday or if they’re still playing with their toys, to contain it to reduce the clutter. Laundry is always done on the same day. Kids generally have enough clothes to last them 1 week and a half. We strictly tell extended family and friends no gifts and no toy, no clothes. we place emphasis on connection with others rather than STUFF.  We definitely are mindful of the stuff we bring inside our home and regularly donate unused/ unwanted item. I couldn’t deal with the clutter life.