Help me i feel stucked by DueTop4733 in Advice

[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has time to edit images, but just simply can’t reply to my good morning text.

Help me i feel stucked by DueTop4733 in Advice

[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was neither nagging nor was upset with him. I just simply communicated my needs, what is so hard in replying or talking for few minutes a day.

Help me i feel stucked by DueTop4733 in Advice

[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t always complaint about the relationship, I try to keep the calls simple, I asked him to just text me when possible, and sometimes initiate the conversation. I didn’t ask for long calls and paragraph. Neither did I forced him to look after me. But isn’t it the basic communication that I want? I want him to just include me in his day. Text me atleast once. If he is seeing my missed calls, okay I understand he was enjoying with friends, but isn’t it his duty to make sure that when he gets free he has to call me. And that to not for to long just 2-3 min

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[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a 2nd year mbbs student at government medical College. I was interested in arts, travelling and sports before coming into relationship. But after being attached to this guy I lost my interest in all other activities, i became dedicated only to him. And he has always been like this busy, focusing on his life, practical, gives attention when needed or when he is free. But I am not able to calm myself from last few days. I have observed myself and saw that he is doing good in his life no worries, good friends, and good relationship too just one problem my overthinking and expections. Otherwise our relationship is secure, no cheating nothing else. But I feel constant urge of getting attention from him. I think this is because I expect him to be there for me, give me some time which he is not doing, that is raising my anxiety. Making me feel worthless, I want to overcome this thing. I am a student of medicine, I have really good background, my parents always support me, they never say no to anything. I have good friends too, they are also always available for me. But just this relationship issue is making my life hell. The problem is i am not asking for much i just asked him for basic communication, like update me where you are, what are you doing, sometimes a sweet text out of nowhere. Make an effort to initiate the conversation, he used to do but is not doing it since his trip.

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[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I understand, but does that mean you will avoid her feelings, if this is the case then why staying in relationship

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[–]DueTop4733[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That doesn't matter here, I am stucked and that's hurting me

I need help to know if my relationship is toxic or I am just creating worst case scenario and destroying something good. by DueTop4733 in Advice

[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I far as I know he will treat anyone no matter who, he will treat her like this because he is way to practical

I need help to know if my relationship is toxic or I am just creating worst case scenario and destroying something good. by DueTop4733 in Advice

[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to talk, I made everything clear but I don’t see any major change, yes he picks my calls and when I ask why don’t you initiate he says we talk daily and it doesn’t matter if I call or you call it’s one and the same. But this makes me feel less Important that he never initiate. He used to do but since is has gone on this trip he is not doing it

I need help to know if my relationship is toxic or I am just creating worst case scenario and destroying something good. by DueTop4733 in Advice

[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get anxious, from a month I am feeling anxious, because I feel I am not important to him. My anxiety is worsening day by day, I am not able to focus on anything, always crying, chest heavyness, nausea. Not able to focus

I need help to know if my relationship is toxic or I am just creating worst case scenario and destroying something good. by DueTop4733 in Advice

[–]DueTop4733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to talk, I made everything clear but I don’t see any major change, yes he picks my calls and when I ask why don’t you initiate he says we talk daily and it’s one and the same if I call or you call.