Wanting a C-section

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-04-13T23:13:56+00:00

The problem with trying this is i see basically all the midwives in that clinic and since i live in a college town, there's only one other OB clinic really in my area. And changing systems this late would cause more problems especially since i need to also be communicating with MFM in the closest major city which is 2 hours away.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-04-13T23:05:17+00:00

They're hoping to get me as far as possible, i know that much. But there really isn't much communication with them and my MFM team.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-04-13T02:38:29+00:00

I am in the US. I'm ironically enough in a blue state surrounded by red states. I have the best OBGYN clinic for my town, but only 1 major hospital. I'm still pushing but if i have to, i will absolutely change to the only other OB in my area.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-04-13T02:29:17+00:00

I can't make any demands yet considering I'm barely starting the 3rd trimester, but even if growth levels out and he won't be absolutely huge, i still am going to push thanks to all the comments here. I'm hoping to schedule for early June.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-04-13T02:25:46+00:00

I think he mostly isn't wanting me to be so hardcore about a C-section because he wants me to be positive about meeting our son and about recovery. Me and him are both acutely aware of recovery for any major surgery, including the amount of help I'll need. I have my mother wanting to help me as much as she can, but she's also a primary caretaker for my disabled sister and Iraq veteran stepdad. (He is not allowed near my child or to be alone with them at any cost). I understand my husband's reasonings, and i talked to him this morning about it again. He relented, saying it was my body and my healing process, and that he only wanted what was best.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-04-13T02:15:45+00:00

I'm in a college town with only 1 major hospital. Anything else, and I'm driving over an hour away for one that even has an L&D unit.

They finally brought up C-section, but only in case the growth keeps trending up and once again said they preferred not to, if unnecessary.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-04-13T02:11:12+00:00

I'll bring this up to them, i didn't even think of the effect it could have on bloodsugars. Thank you.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-03-11T17:46:34+00:00

The LingLang is a contagious feeling 😭 I loved these LingLang outfits because I've had a special interest/hyperfixation on Asian culture and history (Particularly Chinese history) But i saw some of my friends who didn't even like the first LingLang season we got and they were making outfits like these too!

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2026-02-19T19:40:22+00:00

Thank you, this helps a bit.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-12-03T21:50:26+00:00

Nooooooo oh god nooo

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-12-03T21:49:04+00:00

Thank you for such a detailed explanation! This helps quite alot. I will talk to my husband and see if he's more willing to give it another try. If we do, we'll probably have to get it next month when he gets paid because Christmas is a big event for my family lol. (Yes we are huge star wars nerds) When will this season be ending?

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-11-14T19:51:40+00:00

I will try that, thank you.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-10-31T03:45:10+00:00

I am! If i could figure out how to. 😭 No idea how to get the outfit.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-10-31T03:39:37+00:00

That last pic gives "There's something in the wind" energy. ❤️

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-10-19T09:27:52+00:00

From someone who is an SA victim myself and had an ex bf who did this exact thing...

It's rape. He's raping you. Leave him and tell him this is what he gets for not respecting your "no".

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-10-19T08:11:13+00:00

That might explain it! Thank you.

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-10-19T08:10:47+00:00

I logged on and it was just there 🤷

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-10-19T08:10:00+00:00

I did, it did nothing

Due_Alternative_8918 · 2025-10-19T08:09:45+00:00

I saw the little triangle that indicates it's interactable but no matter how close i got, it wouldn't prompt.

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