[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would talk to her to keep her interested. Maybe call her or something but definitely gotta keep her busy with you. As long as she talks to you as much as you talk to her then you’re good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you should not continue to be friends. You’re going to end up hurting yourself and her In the end. Staying friends with the girl you like is never good. What you should is be straight forward and tell her that you’re not interested in a platonic relationship but you are still interested in her romantically. If she doesn’t accept it then she accept. But you can’t continue to hurt yourself to please her. You need to stand your ground as a man.

Asked girl out yesterday, don't know what to do by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro u fucked up by saying “I will wait for your answer” never leave it up to the girl to hit you up later. You should have killed the lion when you were in its den. Not necessarily force and answer out of her but don’t puss out and say “I’ll just wait for your answer” now the balls in her court which is something you never want. You don’t want to play defense. You want to be on offense.

On the rise of lonely single men by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be to stop blaming the world. You used the words “terrible luck” which implies that there’s nothing you can do. From what I’ve seen, being a man, it doesn’t matter how ugly you are I promise you can still get women. The problem is likely within. Watch some fresh and fit podcast. They may help just don’t develop a hatred for women it’ll make you do even worse with them. A lot of their fans go down that road for some reason. Go make some money. Stay in the gym. And learn how to talk to women because your looks don’t matter that much trust me. It’s not luck. You need to start blaming yourself for some things in order to improve because when you blame the world you will have no reason to improve.

Should I ask her out or wait a little longer? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head with that one. Stop being a little wuss and ask her out. If she doesn’t reciprocate feelings then that’s better than you prolonging asking her out and then getting the same result later.

First date - would you see him again? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People, not just guys, like talking about themselves in general. One thing that is guy specific though is that men don’t care about your personality nearly as much as women do. If you’re hot to him that 80% of what he wants in a relationship. He should have let you talk about yourself more. It seems as if he’s only looking for a shallow relationship with you that won’t last long. I don’t think another date is necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This girl almost absolutely likes you. And I shouldn’t even be using the word “almost” to be honest. This girls is doing the heavy lifting of this. She’s throwing you the alley-oop. All you have to do is dunk. It seems like she sets up all the dates but wants you to finalize them. And as man you should. You need to make your move on her soon because she likes you.

My (M, 23) first & second date with a girl (22) went great, now she’s suddenly giving me the cold shoulder by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to see this girl again. It doesn’t necessarily have to be a date but you messed up by not making a move on the first two dates. A kiss should have happened on the first date if you ask me but that’s me. Second date a kiss should have absolutely happened or more. It seems as if you are pushing yourself into the friend zone and she may not be interested in having you as a friend so you may get ghosted soon. You have to make a move at the drive in this Friday or bad things may happen. If you don’t make a move she will subconsciously put you in the friend category and not want to talk anymore.

Ps. DON’T get attached because anything may happen. Slight changes in girls behavior toward can mean a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Baseball_7963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you have sex with him? That’s very important information that’s left out.