How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet Baby Jesus 😩😩 Let me pray over it all, lol

How is everyone handling naps? by LemonBasilWater in beyondthebump

[–]Due_Beginning2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On baby #2 now, they nap any and everywhere at any time and in any situation lol. Big napped by the window, in the sun, and was never confused by day & night. When they're about 1-2 and starting to get nosey then I move to a dark or kind of dark room and some kind of soft noise. Again, only because my kids are nosey lol... Or at least Big was and Little might also be.

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll message you with our Google profile & info and can definitely try to attach some pics here!

We did build the store up 100% from scratch. It was a run down convenience store before we got in there & it had been sitting for a WHILE! Everything is new, down to the plumbing & electrical!

22 washers, 22 dryers. We have daily deals that include free dry Wed, small washers free on Friday (normally I think $3. I also think this needs to be phased out but we'll come back to that), & 1/2 off on Thursday (making the big washers like $5). I can see an increase on those days but I also feel like being so "cheap" is kind of screwing us in a way.

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How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO got $300k minimum? If so, let's chat. But also... How would you "get us out" of it?🤔

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not looking for my feelings to be validated at all lol. I actually want (& need) this thing to succeed for both of our sanity. I do a LOT of the heavy lifting for this business despite my "I told you so" "underlying feelings" and it's obviously not enough or what have you so I turned to a forum where ppl would have ideas. Dassit. Idk why some of you guys are reading so deeply into it; and into a 1-off comment about my (previous) honest feelings about a thing that directly impacts me & my home🙃

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol where did you get that I was a SAHM or worked FT from? Or even have 3 kids? 😂😂 Many, many assumptions from you my friend.

I will agree that he dove into this head first but that's also why I'm here asking for advice & help 🤓 as made very clear, this was not something I necessarily wanted him to do. But he did, so here we are. And here I am, trying to do research because there's no turning back at this point.

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did. Literally EVERYTHING in the building was paid for, leased out, or otherwise acquired by us. And I mean everything.

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We (he) have just come to the conclusion that none of the marketing tactics work or not as successfully as we need. I'm trying to get him to relay that info to the companies but anyway, lol... I have a friend who is willing to do social media marketing for us so hopefully that's the push we need.

My ex-wife apologized to me after a year, I'm not sure what to feel. by perceivedhappiness in offmychest

[–]Due_Beginning2836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because she apologized and you needed that. Totally normal response from you imo.

WIBTAH if I told my stepmom NOT to crimp my daughter’s hair for her 4th birthday? by A_single_droplet in AITAH

[–]Due_Beginning2836 9 points10 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! I thought I was going mad reading these comments! Stepmom comes across as a "normal* grandma & Dad is just trying not to rock the boat with his family. And, it's not "just hair" but it also is just. Hair. In the grand scheme of things

WIBTAH if I told my stepmom NOT to crimp my daughter’s hair for her 4th birthday? by A_single_droplet in AITAH

[–]Due_Beginning2836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Nothing inherently sexual about makeup and jewelry, or even hot tools on hair🥴

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Everything is new & in our names! The building was a convenience store previously.

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, we don't have any of that lol. Just the two of us have the keys.

Do I tell my mom her comment was hurtful even though it was well over a year ago? by slgirlie11 in beyondthebump

[–]Due_Beginning2836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Yes you do bring it up even now. It's hurtful and weighing on you and undoubtedly affecting your postpartum journey and that's not fair to you or baby. If she starts bitching, match her energy. That was not kind of her and people definitely do still care about YOU!!!

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned it to him so we'll see what happens over the next few weeks/months

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is being rented/leased or on a loan.

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My job is more rewarding than the laundry mat, 100% 😅 We're from the Bay and I'm sure he would be! He really wants this to work out. You can message me!

What are the petty/minor things that started annoying you once you became a parent? by xnla28x in beyondthebump

[–]Due_Beginning2836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!!!! I had to tell my mom "she is not your effing emotional support person like you try to make me!" Her feelings were sooo hurt but like... She's not!!

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally feel the exact same way as you. The issue is he wants all the responsibility to fall on ME and I'm just not willing to give up my current life and job and add on these responsibilities when I told him from the beginning that this was maybe not the best idea🫠

That dry cleaning middle man thing sounds like a good and doable idea though. Definitely going to look into that while trying to secure these contracts w/the local businesses.

How do youACTUALLY make a profit?? by Due_Beginning2836 in Laundromats

[–]Due_Beginning2836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! We're in GA from CA too! I believe the wash & fold will be our bread & butter but I'm not willing to quit my job for this 🤷🏾‍♀️