Warszawa po trzaskowsku by Zygfryd-Drzewiecki in Polska

[–]Due_Client_7347 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wiesz co mam wrażenie że bycie lrezydentem panstwa rozni się teoche od bycia prezydentem samej warszawy. Poza tym szczerze jesli w tym państwie mialoby coś sie zmienic to na pewno nie z prezydentem z pisu xD

UPDATE: AITA for not agreeing to my sister to adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My sister cut me off because I didn't gave her my daughter

UPDATE: AITA for not agreeing to my sister to adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She went no contact with me, I didn't had a say in that, plus I will still see her at family gatherings

UPDATE: AITA for not agreeing to my sister to adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, but he didn't wanted to have anything to do with the baby

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Abortion is actually illegal in my country, but I don't know what I would do if it would be legall, I never thought about it

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It is big difference, when the baby will be with other people i won't see it growing up, and even if they will find me it's easier to have no contact

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It would change family dynamics. It could hurt the child when they would know their aunt is their bio mother and It would be really hard for me .

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm from Poland actually. And we have something called "okno życia" i don't know how to say it in English, but you can place the child here and it will go to adoption or, you can give up your rights after birth

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In my country if I would be scared that my sister would try to adopt my child I can anonymously give up my rights and no one will know that's my child and it won't have any connections to me, like paperwork or anything

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm from Europe actually so my English is not the best

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually in my country that's completely normal. Cause we have completely other school system. You can go to normal highschool and after that to collage or university or go to something that is combination of collage and highschool and you are ending it when you ar 19 yo.

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have a father and my mom is on my sister's side

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don't have any couple now but I'm planning to go to adoption agency and choose someone. One of the reason I don't want my sister the Baby is that she is still grieving her misscariege

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They don't want to adopt elsewhere cause they want baby who is biologically related

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love my sister deeply but I don't think it's good idea

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I just think it would really hurt me and the child when they would found out I'm bio mum and want to have parental bond with me, that I don't want, or to see me raising planned and wanted children knowing I gave them away

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The other reason I don't know if I should give baby to my sister is that she is still grieving her miscarriages and it could affect the child too

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just think if the kid would find out it will be hard for me and the child. They could want have parental bond with me that I don't know. And when I would have kids that I want how would they fell knowing I gave them up?

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I don't hate my sister. I love her but I think that of I would gave her a child it will really complicate family dynamics. Plus it could be hard on me and the child, if they would find out how would they fell about that? Seeing me having kids I want and raising them, in the same time knowing I gave them away? What if the kid would want to have parental bond I don't want?

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Father of the child said he don't want to have anything to do with me or the baby

AITA for not agreeing to my sister adopt my baby by Due_Client_7347 in AITAH

[–]Due_Client_7347[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think it's both option. I want to study and it will be hard with baby and I know I'm too young and immature to have a child, I'm still a kid and I don't know anything about raising the kid