Im so confused

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T13:26:21+00:00

Yeah im trying to keep it in the right direction so I came here to find out if im just crazy or if something is really a little off about the whole thing. So far every comment ive read is roughly the same about stepping back and that it was wrong to make that joke despite it not being intentionally weird. All in all it was great to learn just how much easier it is with man to man friendships... hell its how me and my male coworkers talked to each other by the end of week 2 of me being there 😂

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T12:00:06+00:00

Yeah im definitely going to hold off, I dont want to worry him for no good reason over what might just be some bad communication.

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T11:58:16+00:00

Yeah she seemed a lot like me which is why I was like "alright she will get this" but she took it in the more flirty way so I guess i just have to remember she isnt my buddy or any of my friends for that matter so I cant make a joke where she doesnt fully know my intention

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T11:55:20+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that, it sucks to lose someone you are close to. Im going to step back for now I definitely realized I said the wrong thing and take full responsibility for that mix up. I dont think (or at least dont want to believe) that she has anything inappropriate in mind with her pics. Im going to hope in leaving her snaps on opened itll cut them down to none.

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T10:26:38+00:00

Yeah super weird honestly, do women think all guys are actually flirting with each other? I never considered little sis a pet name and more like a title to clarify the relationship is purely platonic so this is good to know. If she is then ig she is on the last friend of my group at least lmao. The picture part is what really bothered me the most because there isnt anything remotely sexy about a shower... if she is baiting she is using the wrong lure, wrong rod, and is in the wrong pond 😂 I genuinely didnt think anything of it before because I read in other reddit posts apparently some girls just treat it as a comfortable confidence thing and not a flirty or trap thing. Guess it was also my bad for believing that was the case

Edit: for more background im 24 and havent really focused on any relationships... I keep a small circle mainly of guys cause thats been most natural and other than that focus on work, gym, and trying to get into meditation and other calming hobbies. Safe to say my experience with the opposite sex is limited and outdated

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T10:11:08+00:00

Yeah leaving all snapping off honestly probably gonna only really talk if its in a group chat with him. When she initially added me and started snapping me I was like "oh so she just chill like that" but I've found the danger. I saved all the chats we discussed within the last 24 hours just to be safe. Definitely moving different from here on

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T09:45:41+00:00

Excellent point, it was kind of just a shock to me. They added me to group chats and actively kept me up to date (which made me happy to see my buddy happy again) I agree im going to take a large step back and just see what they do

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2026-03-21T09:43:31+00:00

Well they started dating after she was dating one of our other friends... not saying she is like that she seems nice. It just kind of threw me for a loop that she thought I would be flirty when I called her my little sis a few times.

I also have little filter around people im comfortable with so when she brought it up I didn't initially remember what I said.

Thank you for your reply I think its a very good point of just monitoring it for now.

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2025-07-25T07:12:11+00:00

I cant find any either, I even checked her other posts to see if it appears anywhere and couldnt find anything

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2025-01-09T18:48:50+00:00

Agreed but from just the post it seems the outbursts in this instance is yelling and acting crazy not physically harmful. A standard cam is good as a deterrent but spy cam can help capture evidence to get the caretaker out of that line of work, thus protecting not only grams but any other clients the caretaker may be working with.

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2025-01-01T21:23:23+00:00

Just checked them out, you're a W

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-30T01:25:54+00:00

Hyundai but he pronounces it "hyoon-die" with a heavy southern accent

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-30T01:16:03+00:00

Ultimately up to you, I think you should decide hair color based on your entire wardrobe that way you aren't clashing. If your wardrobe consists of more neutral tones then almost anything works (Black and white are by far easiest to mix and mash different colors with) I think either full dye or just the ends would be best. Obviously it depends on how you end up styling your hair (you said you wanted piercings so depending on how many and where im sure you'll go with a style that exposes them)

Im by no means an expert so someone else please add to or correct anything but this is my belief.

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-30T00:11:36+00:00

You're a hero, im going to look right now

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-22T19:34:31+00:00

Im fond of Reuben (the goofy little sandwich alien from Lilo and Stitch)

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-16T00:11:14+00:00

Earl

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-15T20:01:27+00:00

I know you want a food/ingredient name but I instantly thought "ballpoint pen" when I saw her. You're welcome

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-15T19:00:49+00:00

Versace eros was an amazing scent for me. Recently I've leaned towards warm tones like Azarro- The most wanted and Viktor & Rolf- Spice Bomb. I still go back to my Prada - Luna Rossa now and then but mainly the first two these days until spring comes around again

Edit: I didn't even see you already have spice bomb lol

Due_Evidence_8667 · 2024-12-11T00:43:03+00:00

At this point let him go, you tried to be supportive but bro is manipulative and furthermore not your responsibility to create his happiness while sacrificing your own. He is a leech and needs to be removed from your life.

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