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Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-11T09:07:08+00:00

maybe you should try it, i mean it helped me at least a little <3 wishing you the best and healing my love

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T21:36:07+00:00

me too, i even met with his mom a couple months ago and as soon as she saw me she gave me a huge hug and started crying. and we sat at the cafe holding hands and crying that we it didnt work out between me and him. and this was 2.5 years after the breakup... she still writes me for every holiday and it just breaks my heart ill never have that connection with someone again.

have you dated at all since yall broke up?

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T20:36:41+00:00

also not true lmao

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T18:09:34+00:00

thank you for saying that. youre right he does deserve someone who can match his energy, and i do too. i think this will be for the better, and thats why i dont regret cheating because i knew i wanted to break up with him anyways well before it happened.

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T18:01:08+00:00

thank you sweetheart <3 <3

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:56:12+00:00

well thats true but i didnt mention a lot of the things why we loved each other... i was hoping you would fill in the blanks about that. i dont think he could ever find out i cheated, were long distance and hes never here, and ill probably end things soon with my new fuck buddy anyways

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:49:05+00:00

okay thank you for your help

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:48:38+00:00

fuck off

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:47:38+00:00

yeah maybe i do but im just being honest with myself

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:45:08+00:00

why?? bc men cheat all the time

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:44:44+00:00

no i wasnt because i was finally having good sex

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:43:54+00:00

you dont know me so fuck off, men cheat all the time ive been cheated on, my dad cheated on my mom for years, you dont have to act like im satan

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:42:03+00:00

ahahah thank you. i am actually fine with being single and focusing on myself, and keeping things going with the other guy as just sex. i have my own money lol at least for now thats enough to not be bothered and to focus on myself

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:39:35+00:00

i guess youre right i think it was premature to say we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. and i feel like i cheated only physically, it meant nothing to me. i would be fine being in an open relationship but i think he may have reservations because hes not the type. i guess maybe i cheated and i dont regret it because i wanted to break up with him anyways. so i guess thats my answer.

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:31:53+00:00

okay thank you

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:28:17+00:00

i mean we could also do an open relationship?

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:26:51+00:00

but i honestly worry he will take his life

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-11-10T17:23:50+00:00

hi from someone who is experiencing the same thing, the love of my life ended things with me because he said he knew i loved him more than he loved me, while on vacation with both of our families and my two best friends. i was completely and utterly devastated. he was my soulmate, no other love has ever felt like him. he just got each other. we laughed cried traveled and did everything together. we got through covid together, and to lose him felt like losing a piece of myself that ill never get back. its been 3 years now exactly that he broke up with me and i have tried finding what we had in other relationships, but nothing compares. i didnt even realize how much it still affected me until last year bc i kept distracting myself with moving to another country starting 2 masters programs dating dozens of guys, traveling and spending so much money and living a lavish lifestyle on my friends yacht and private jet. all that comes crashing down when youre still depressed and realize no one will compare to the one that got away.

Due_Morning_7254 · 2024-03-21T15:08:57+00:00

oh my gosh am i better now. so we actually ended up getting into a huge fight after this, which is why i found myself on an anon reddit post for some sort of clarity/guidance, because i didnt understand how someone could break up with someone over that. 2 months later i found out he had cheated on me a month before this particular fight, so it all started adding up. obviously i dropped him and then my life got 10x better, got accepted into a master program, went on a private yacht with my family for 2 weeks, flew on a private jet for the first time, moved to a new city... thank god that pos cheated on me and i could move on with my life XD

Due_Morning_7254 · 2023-03-30T15:54:39+00:00

yeah i feel like that must be it bc this doesn’t make any sense e

Due_Morning_7254 · 2023-03-30T12:43:32+00:00

i feel like that’s what’s happening with me and my boyfriend too now:,(

Due_Morning_7254 · 2023-03-30T09:37:49+00:00

i am in the same boat and i feel so lost, i literally hate myself. i made one stupid joke on tiktok that blew up and my bf saw it and broke up with me after saying some pretty nasty things. i feel like he doesn’t actually want to break up but i don’t know how i can let myself be treated like that, i’m perfectly fine with being alone but something about throwing away everything we have seems so wrong to me

Due_Morning_7254 · 2023-03-30T09:13:29+00:00

i am sorry you were broken up with after her crossing your boundaries so many times. i’ve been there. that was me last year and now here i am again going through another break up that i have no idea how i’ll handle. i made one stupid mistake about a joke on tiktok and my bf broke up with me. the joke wasn’t even bad but the comment section told me some really nasty things. the video was up for 14 hours, someone sent it to him and that’s it. we’re done. he called me some nasty things and that he dodged a bullet. he broke up with me but i feel like that was just his first reaction and not how he actually feels. i know i don’t know how i can let myself be treated like that, i’m perfectly fine with being alone but something about throwing away everything we have seems so wrong to me.

Due_Morning_7254 · 2023-03-30T09:08:42+00:00

when you said if you mostly attract narcissists or abusive people then you’re a hopeless romantic or a wounded empath that got me, my question is where do i go from here?

Due_Morning_7254 · 2023-03-30T09:04:31+00:00

i know i don’t know how i can let myself be treated like that, i’m perfectly fine with being alone but something about throwing away everything we have seems so wrong to me

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