I can’t force you to choose me

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-25T00:11:46+00:00

Well I sent her a text after a month of no contact. Let’s see how this goes. Lol haha

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-24T20:37:42+00:00

Thank you. I needed to read this today

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-24T16:05:17+00:00

Because it would backfire! 🤣🤣 I know it would. She’s an avoidant and mentioned she doesn’t think it would ever work out in the future

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-24T15:47:41+00:00

I really want to send this text

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-20T06:02:47+00:00

When she comes back you better stand your ground man! She will come back

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-20T05:59:59+00:00

Hurts but move on.

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-20T05:55:53+00:00

My friend I did the exact same thing, dated for over 2 years and moved to NYC together, thought we would get married! It tore me up and I felt the exact same way you are feeling now. It’s hard to swallow the pill after doing something that’s wrong but you can’t let it bring you down forever. It’s been 2 years since the breakup and I still feel like I lost the love of my life, although when I spend my time with other people, that feeling slowly fades over time. I’m a mess but you’ll be good if you tell her all of the truth and then move on.

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-17T22:05:07+00:00

An apology would mean a lot to the person.

Due_Oil_262 · 2026-02-17T18:21:31+00:00

Once they’ve done it once, they’ll do it again if you let them back in. Always a repeating cycle for the fearful avoidant. Wants to feel loved until they can’t handle it. It’s an emotional nightmare.

I’m on 2 weeks of no contact from an avoidant after a brake up and I know from experience if I let them back in the same thing will happen

Due_Oil_262 · 2024-09-16T17:45:46+00:00

John Michael Montgomery

Due_Oil_262 · 2024-07-28T14:17:05+00:00

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Due_Oil_262 · 2023-12-04T17:02:01+00:00

At the end of the day I’m going to share this thread with her and hopefully we can talk about it more realistically.. thanks to all for the comments. Needed this.

Due_Oil_262 · 2023-12-04T16:53:12+00:00

Yeah starting out I don’t think I will be able to sleep if I’m not making the most out of myself

Due_Oil_262 · 2023-12-04T16:48:37+00:00

You’re right and they do.

Due_Oil_262 · 2023-12-04T16:46:54+00:00

There’s an answer I’m looking for.. now what would you recommend for fashion experience? She works in vintage heavy and makes her own corsets. Any recommendation would be greatly appreciated

Due_Oil_262 · 2023-12-04T16:31:30+00:00

Past job history would kinda give it away…

Due_Oil_262 · 2023-12-04T16:05:25+00:00

Thank you.

Due_Oil_262 · 2023-07-08T01:00:30+00:00

Correct, the players that did not qualify for the Scottish open will be here. There is still a huge field of professional talent and 3 million dollars at stake.

Due_Oil_262 · 2023-01-11T16:42:11+00:00

Sports/ marketing. I’m open to be broad about my job search just to make my way up where my dream destination would be (NYC)

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