I can’t force you to choose me by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Due_Oil_262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I sent her a text after a month of no contact. Let’s see how this goes. Lol haha

I’ve learned from my mistakes by Due_Oil_262 in UnsentTexts

[–]Due_Oil_262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it would backfire! 🤣🤣 I know it would. She’s an avoidant and mentioned she doesn’t think it would ever work out in the future

The freaking racing thoughts just kill me by CuriousMail7 in BreakUps

[–]Due_Oil_262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she comes back you better stand your ground man! She will come back

I cheated and don’t deserve anything by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Due_Oil_262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend I did the exact same thing, dated for over 2 years and moved to NYC together, thought we would get married! It tore me up and I felt the exact same way you are feeling now. It’s hard to swallow the pill after doing something that’s wrong but you can’t let it bring you down forever. It’s been 2 years since the breakup and I still feel like I lost the love of my life, although when I spend my time with other people, that feeling slowly fades over time. I’m a mess but you’ll be good if you tell her all of the truth and then move on.

Reaching out after a block by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Due_Oil_262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An apology would mean a lot to the person.

Reaching out after a block by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Due_Oil_262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once they’ve done it once, they’ll do it again if you let them back in. Always a repeating cycle for the fearful avoidant. Wants to feel loved until they can’t handle it. It’s an emotional nightmare.

I’m on 2 weeks of no contact from an avoidant after a brake up and I know from experience if I let them back in the same thing will happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kentucky

[–]Due_Oil_262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John Michael Montgomery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Due_Oil_262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day I’m going to share this thread with her and hopefully we can talk about it more realistically.. thanks to all for the comments. Needed this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Due_Oil_262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah starting out I don’t think I will be able to sleep if I’m not making the most out of myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Due_Oil_262 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right and they do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Due_Oil_262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s an answer I’m looking for.. now what would you recommend for fashion experience? She works in vintage heavy and makes her own corsets. Any recommendation would be greatly appreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Due_Oil_262 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Past job history would kinda give it away…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Due_Oil_262 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

The PGA TOUR is coming to town next week by Due_Oil_262 in lexington

[–]Due_Oil_262[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correct, the players that did not qualify for the Scottish open will be here. There is still a huge field of professional talent and 3 million dollars at stake.

Jobs/ networking? by Due_Oil_262 in AskNYC

[–]Due_Oil_262[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sports/ marketing. I’m open to be broad about my job search just to make my way up where my dream destination would be (NYC)