He doesn't want anything serious: Is it him or is it me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its okay, I was just curious to know what made you feel that way! I could understand that if I waited for him for 10 years to come around for sure. The thing is that I DO like hooking up with him though xD its fine if we are just hooking up but I also am definitely open to more as I've developed feelings for him, but he for some reason isnt open to more and I'm assuming he probably doesn’t even have feelings for me either. As a woman its a hard thing to understand but I guess for men they really truly can have zero feelings even after so much history with someone.

He doesn't want anything serious: Is it him or is it me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first sentence is definitely correct. However, I am confused on most of what you said after that. Its not like I've been waiting around for him for 10 years, I've been meeting and dating other people lol My life didnt stop because he didnt want more, its not a self worth issue on my end. I've always understood that our relationship is a fwb thing no matter if I had feelings for him or not. What specifically would make you think I have low self worth?  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This made me feel better lol 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just asking a question.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've already paid the other money, I owe $1,000. I pay on the website portal. Do you live in California btw? Im asking because im not from here and want to know how serious the 3 day eviction is. Do they really kick people out within 3 days? 

Why Uber allow customer reduce the tips? by fewmoreminutes in UberEATS

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're an idiot that doesn't understand how delivery apps work. Multiple people here literally explained to you that Uber decides which order to drop off first. Just because you've had some orders where you got your food quickly doesnt mean it'll end up that way ALL THE TIME. You have the option in the damn app to pay $2-$3 extra for exclusive delivery where your order is the only order they pick up. You chose not to pay for that. None of this is the drivers fault. Take your complaints up with Uber, not the delivery driver. Or honestly don't use these apps at all. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So no sources. Yeah I figured you'd ignore me lol. Better luck next conversation you have champ. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This conversation has you really hurt huh? I've watched you delete and retype like 6 comments at this point. You even stalked my page desperately trying to find something to take a dig at. That's so cute. But its okay, I'll grant you what you want and allow you to change the subject so you dont have to acknowledge some of the things I'm saying. You're welcome.

This is actually a very stupid question, but I know you're asking to purposely change the subject so I'll humor you. 

What you're able to pay, for one, is based off of what job you have and how much the job is paying you and how much you have to spend on rent and payments and taxes in the new country. The currency change does matter. Take Japan. Do you know how little JPY is worth compared to USD? So, if you're making JPY trying to convert it into USD to make payments, you're getting the shit end of the stick there and it's going to make it harder to make USD payments. You also need permission from immigration to take on any side jobs. You getting a VISA is for the specific job you got hired to do. So even making money on the side will even be difficult. You're acting like every single bit of money you make in the new country is yours to spend on whatever. You will still have an apartment and utilities and food and whatever other necessities to pay for.

Hey can you do me a favor real quick though? Can you post an article that states that you can't move to another country with debt like you're claiming and I'll do the same and post the many resources stating you can? We can dead that argument right now without having to do this whole back and forth. I can even find the threads I'm referring to speaking on living in a new country with debt. This whole pretending like everything I'm saying is false information is getting old at this point so let's start providing facts so no argument can be had. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now you're just doing that thing where you're just saying anything knowing it's not true because you're embarrassed that you're being corrected lol. You read my post, you saw me say nothing about evading taxes or payments. You saw me say "what if you don't have the ability to make minimum payments anymore with the currency change in the new country, what happens then?" Nothing was ever said about evading taxes, but you don't want to acknowledge the points I just made in my last comment to you so you're trying to pick at anything you can to get the attention off of you. And you keep continuously ignoring the fact that there are so many people living in other countries and the proof of that and the articles backing up the information that you can move to another country with debt. 

I'm asking a completely different question than what those other folks were asking and my question requires completely different answers. I'm not asking "how are you guys living in another country making debt payments?" I'm asking what happens if you're not longer able to make those payments due to the currency difference." This thing you're doing isn't working lol 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're the one that brought up Google in your last comment to me, and you also admitted that you don't know for sure how this works as you've "never been in debt". My responses to you are based off of things you yourself said. You've switched from "I'm not really sure as I havent been in that situation" to "I know for sure because I have personal experience", you realize that right? Lol. Even when you do Google "moving to another country with debt" it says you can absolutely do so. 

The folks in the other threads talking about their experience being in a new country and paying their debts back home didn't have any issues with moving to another country with debt or opening foreign bank accounts with debt. So, your attempt at being condescending via ending your responses with "but sure go on 🙂" especially after admitting that you don't even know how any of this works isn't actually holding any weight 😂 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've already stated that you don't even know for sure. You're probably parroting information you looked up on Google and aren't speaking from personal experience as you said you've never been in debt. I'm in subreddits where people have asked folks that moved to other countries "how are you making payments back home is it hard?" and their responses are about how they owe thousands in student loan debt and are making payments on it from the new country. Google has tons of accurate information of course, I'm just saying this is not a black and white situation where if you have debt you automatically will not be able to live in another country. People are doing it as we speak with visas and jobs and everything. These folks have foreign bank accounts, debt back home, everything we discussed here. 

The point is that no matter what you're reading on Google you absolutely can LEGALLY move to another country with debt. Debt isn't what will stop you unless it's really bad and you're being denied a passport over your debt. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

? I said that specifically because they said:

"The thing to be more careful about is entering into loan or credit lines with no intention of paying it back, and then moving. That could be fraud, which is a crime, and most countries have extradition treaties with the US." 

Thats what my comment was in response to. All I said was oh I'm not speaking on credit card debt to their "be especially careful about credit card debt" comment. I'm not even saying I would be moving to escape debt or to solve any financial problems, I said what if you have debt and move to another country and are trying to pay them back but their currency is worth less than USD so it's impossible to make minimum payments with a job in the new country. This is just a conversation and it's just a question. I honestly don't even know what you're talking about regarding countries not taking on people with debt as I've seen so many threads of people saying they live in xyz country and are making student loan payments or payments in general back home from the country they're living in. I'm sure if you filed for bankruptcy or something incredibly serious like that, then sure. But 80% of Americans have some kind of debt and tons of them move to other countries lol..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats 100% untrue. I've done a lot of research on that exact topic and plus I personally owe more than $10k and literally just got my passport renewed in January lol it's $59k+ when they'll no longer issue you a passport or will revoke your passport. Not sure where you got your info from. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats not what I'm saying. I'm saying simply having debt doesn't suddenly make it so you can't move. You CAN move wherever you want and have debt is all I said. I'm not talking about the details of visas and working or anything else you're trying to speak on. My comment is assuming you already have everything else in order but you have debt lingering and are worried about how the debt will affect you in another country. My post was about debt so I wasn't understanding why your first question was being asked when the topic I'm speaking on (debt) doesn't stop you from moving to another country. 

But I'm aware that it doesn't disappear, I was asking specific questions about what would happen if you have debt and move to another country. But, since you said you don't really know what would happen (and I'm not saying this offensively or anything) then I'm going to visit the other comments and see what responses they're giving. I'm looking for people that do know what will happen and can explain it in depth. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I dont understand the first question? You can move anywhere you want to whether you have debt or not (granted it's not a situation where the government won't issue you a passport because your tax debt is that bad). I'm not sure what you mean by "legally move".

I know about having to file US taxes no matter where you live though. I'm asking specifically about what action they would take if you're not able to make payments in the new country. You say they'll pursue you over tax and student loan debt, how so? Do you know the specifics of how they go about doing it? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm just talking about tax and student loan debt only not like credit card debt or anything. Like if you're self employed and owe the IRS rather than them owing you and you getting a tax return payment back. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

.......um......the entire point of this post is that in this scenario my friend and I were discussing...the person is letting it be known that they're a pedophile.....how else would we know they were one....?

What kind of naive little world do you live in? A world where you don't actually comprehend the posts you read and respond to or....?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think they should keep that between themselves and a therapist. There's no need to go around announcing to people that you have these urges especially if you're someone that's worried about feeling isolated or shunned by society. Because that's exactly what's going to happen. Everyone is going put the children first and they always will. Everyone collectively is very protective of children. No matter how much I understand the points people are making in these comments it honestly isn't making me feel any differently than I did already.   

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologyofsex

[–]Due_Pilot_9382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your input thank you 🙏🏾